Smug post but it is low paid!
I love my new-ish job for many many reasons but I've only just realised the best one today. I'm an extrovert so I always assumed that I'd love working with others, as a team. This is my first job in a private office where I control my own workload and so long as I finish things before the deadline I'm mostly left to my own devices.
I am also part of a team and can check in with them if I need to. I can also go and sit in the lounge if I want to at lunch. However I have the freedom to leave when the convo gets boring and I need some air. Choose my own radio station, have the late lunch slot every day if I want, drink tea loudly and not have to debate constantly whether to bother making everyone else in the team one!
Also this never happens:
Me: right, I'm off
Colleague: You're off are you?
Me: yeah
Colleague: what you up to tonight?
Me: nothing really, telly, bed (feels boring)
Colleague: yeah me too
Me: see you then
Colleague: see you
Five minutes pass
Me: sorry I forgot my scarf
Colleague: yeah it's cold out
Me: bye then
Colleague: bye, see you tomorrow
Gahhh used to drive me mad! Now I can just go! Into the dark, music on, home to talk to people I really respect (cats and toddlers)