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AIBU to ask you when you have a bath?

102 replies

Grannybags · 11/11/2019 08:12

Lighthearted but I’m curious. Yesterday at church we had Morning service, then a parade through town to the memorial for wreath laying then back to church for a service.
Afterwards we were clearing up and I said to a couple of friends that I was off home for a bath before Evensong. Best mate said she’d join me (private joke as don’t actually share the same bath!) but the other woman was horrified. Apparently you should only have a bath in the evening and she had never heard of anyone having a bath in the afternoon. A quick opinion poll of others seemed to suggest that this is a popular opinion. I work from home so will often have a bath in the day as it frees up the evening for work, getting meals, child’s homework etc
Is it really that odd?

OP posts:
WorldEndingFire · 11/11/2019 09:36

Writing this from the bath, have one whenever you want one!

ffswhatnext · 11/11/2019 09:38

I have a bath when I want one regardless of time.

KnittingSister · 11/11/2019 09:40

Never, haven't had a bath for years!

AnneKipanki · 11/11/2019 09:41

Whatever floats your boat ( or duck )

User3421090989098 · 11/11/2019 10:31

Whenever I fancy, mainly in the afternoon though!

BarrytheFatcat · 11/11/2019 10:35

When I was pregnant last year I went through a period of having a bath in the middle of the night because I couldn't sleep and it was the only thing that would settle my stomach!

PumpkinP · 11/11/2019 10:36

Every morning as I don’t have a shower

Jollitwiglet · 11/11/2019 10:38

If I have a bath it's usually in the evening as otherwise my toddler will just climb on in.

NiceLegsShameAboutTheFace · 11/11/2019 10:40

Once a year: whether I need it or not Grin

I'm a shower person.

MsChatterbox · 11/11/2019 10:40

I have a bath whenever I fancy if I'm home.

Corneysjazzband · 11/11/2019 10:43

An afternoon bath is luxury. I knot the net curtain (plain glass window, listed house so no option to change) out of the way once I am safely in. That way I can look out at the garden and sometimes see the pheasants wandering around. Or a visiting cat trying to sneak through. I wash my hair in the bath and like leaving it to air dry as this gives my hair the best shape. Hate it blow dried. DH is rarely home before 8:30 so if we have an evening bath and a meal, there is no evening left. Mornings is not an option. I do not like mornings.

MrsMozartMkII · 11/11/2019 10:43

Anytime of the day is the right time for a bath.

Mornings - gives a good pause to contemplate.

Afternoons - either decadent or good for aching muscles.

Evening - switch off time.

Gillian1980 · 11/11/2019 10:44

I quite like a daytime bath while dd is at school. No audience or non-stop “mummy, mummy, mummy”

thatwasMauijustmessingaround · 11/11/2019 10:47

Can't remember the last time I had a bath. Definitely haven't had one in this house and I've lived here over a year.

I just shower 🤷🏻‍♀️

Newbie1999 · 11/11/2019 10:48

I only have a bath to relax with a glass of wine and the iPad, never to actually wash! That’s what a shower is for.

SunshineAngel · 11/11/2019 10:48

I don't like having a bath at any other time other than evening, as it relaxes me too much, and I just want to chill afterwards (so don't want to cook or go to work or whatever).

I have a quick shower each morning to freshen up, and a shower most evenings - if I have plenty of time, I will have a bath on either the Saturday or Sunday, but I like to set at least an hour and a half aside to have the bath and then lay on the bed reading for a bit, and I don't often have that time to spare.

Runnerduck34 · 11/11/2019 15:51

I prefer baths in the evening as a way to unwind and then I can put my pyjamas on and relax for the rest of the evening.
I have sometimes taken a bath in the day when I've been off sick or if it it's been my only window of opportunity during the day ( when DC were small etc) but it did feel strange somehow! Previous pp is right thou getting dressed again is a pain and my hair is always frizz city after a bath!

ThereIsIron · 11/11/2019 16:02

My last bath was in 1989 Grin

Cleanfreshbedding · 11/11/2019 17:15

Sunday teatime is bath time for me but only in autumn/winter. I love a good wallow with Downton/Call the Midwife on the iPad.
I love it even more if it’s raining and freezing cold outside.
Clean pyjamas and clean bedding after is just bliss.

NotExactlyHappyToHelp · 11/11/2019 17:30

I really really feel the cold so I’ll have a bath when I need a good defrost.

Shower every morning to get clean and a bath whenever I fancy one.

I won’t have a bath if I’m going out again that day though as I like to scrawp my hair up, take my make up off and stick my pjs on after.

GreenFingersWouldBeHandy · 11/11/2019 17:32

Well, I don't have a shower so I have a bath every morning.

tomboytown · 11/11/2019 17:36

1975

JustDanceAddict · 11/11/2019 17:53

About twIce a year!
Always shower.

dementedma · 11/11/2019 17:55

Typing this in the bath right now! Evenings or late afternoons here. Mornings is weird

MonsterKidz · 11/11/2019 17:56

Usually I’ll bath at night and shower in the morning. Like others I like to our pjs on after a bath and in the winter it warms me up. I like it hot.
However, i’ve been known to have s bath in daytime too, especially if i’ve been out doing something like gardening, walking, or after a cold or rainy stand on the side of the footie pitch watching sons. Then a bath is lovely in the afternoon.

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