Okay so... my boyfriend has lost my coat. Sounds minor right?
My late father purchased a coat for me before he died - valued at £1600. My financially abusive scrounging boyfriend wears it as he doesn’t own one “that nice” it’s not
obviously a girls jacket either.
After an argument yesterday of me not being able to lend him £600 he went to his friends to get drunk. I have been kindly asking him to stay away from this friend for a few weeks as they are extremely toxic and cause trouble, also I feel somewhat disrespected as my other half sits and has meals with these people when 99% of the time I’m having a ready meal for one. He has lost my coat and cannot find it and there’s a slight chance someone in the house where he was has stolen it. I don’t have anything nice anymore due to him bleeding me dry, also the coat was a gift off my dad and can’t be replaced. I feel sick looking at him for being so reckless and irresponsible with my things, I don’t want him touching me and I’m awake now extremely upset thinking about how hard my parents worked to buy me such a nice item - and how someone who is nothing but a scrounger and a snake hasn’t cared for it enough to get it home to me. I don’t want him anymore.
Am I being unreasonable here? Is it just a coat? Or is he a complete waste of space?