Inspired by another thread, but I don’t get why it’s bad form to leave a messy kitchen for hired cleaners? I think it was she had a baking session with the kids and left the whole mess for the cleaner.
Surely this all depends more what you’d like your cleaner to get down to? For instance, if I need deep cleaning, I wouldn’t want them to waste time doing my dishes, but otherwise, I just don’t get it if you are paying fairly for their time? AIBU?