Just after some advice. Been with dh 8 years in total. Got pregnant last year. Always got on great with pil until got pregnant (more specifically when we found out gender this started). It's mainly mil but fil is being funny by proxy and doesn't want to do anything to upset mil so is very distant. All started with skitty remarks which I could ignore. But since having dc it has turned into full on temper tantrums (to the extent of she threw dc toys because she wasn't getting the reaction she wanted from dh). She has said and behaved in a truly unacceptable manner. For example saying dc has 'bitch face'. To me no one should say that about a baby never mind dc own grandma. Last week husband had an argument with his mum about other behaviours and she couldn't see what she had done wrong so I suppose I'm asking for advice on what to do from here. Aibu to say I don't want to go round alone anymore? Just go with partner. I'm really struggling to forgive and get over it because it's happening so regularly now (every few weeks new issues with mil) and causing arguments between me and dh.