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To go trick or treating on Wednesday?

89 replies

nearlyfullycooked · 28/10/2019 15:22

Kids adore Halloween, but I can't go on Thursday night. Would it be weird to take them on Wednesday?

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ilovehalloween · 28/10/2019 15:47

Erm of course it would be weird. No one will be expecting you.
Unless you arrange to only go to people you know and ask if it's ok

PrincessScarlett · 28/10/2019 15:48

Yes weird. No one will have sweets out and surely half the fun is seeing all the other trick or treaters out.

StoneofDestiny · 28/10/2019 15:48

I also agree with only decorated houses and only on the 31st

Absolutely, what an utter PITA of having random people knocking on your door and disturbing your evening two days in a row!

JacquesHammer · 28/10/2019 15:48

Only 31st and only houses that are decorated.

Are there any local Halloween events happening during half-term you could take them to instead?

GruciusMalfoy · 28/10/2019 15:50

Halloween is one specific day, so yeah, yab7

Noseyparker85 · 28/10/2019 15:50

My dogs go nuts everytime our door goes, so i don't decorate the house! Or buy sweets....

ilovehalloween · 28/10/2019 15:50

Could you ask a friend or neighbour if your kids can tag along with them on Thursday?

That's usually how it worked in my neighbourhood as a child, 1 or 2 adults ushering around about 10 kids. Or a couple of older siblings supervising.

GruciusMalfoy · 28/10/2019 15:50

FFS, can't type today. *YABU.

musicinspring1 · 28/10/2019 15:50

Another one who says there is a strict unwritten rule in this area at least - only the 31st and only decorated houses or those displaying a lit pumpkin

Countrybumpkins · 28/10/2019 15:51

only the 31st and only decorated houses or those displaying a lit pumpkin
Definitely this

Bumblebee1115 · 28/10/2019 15:53

No! Halloween only! People wouldn’t expect it early and probably wouldn’t be prepared.

If you can’t take your little ones trick or treating maybe buy them some sweets and treats instead and buy a Halloween bag or bucket to put them in 😀

hazeyjane · 28/10/2019 15:55

Only on the 31st
Only houses with decorations or a pumpkin.

GetTheSprinkles · 28/10/2019 15:56

This would just irritate all of your neighbours Confused

Spacerader · 28/10/2019 15:57

I’m with everyone else, you only go out trick or treating in halloweeen. No other night. Unless you ore attange with family and close neighbours that you can come around.

I’d be so annoyed having people knock my door in the Wednesday evening and certainly wouldn’t have any kind of sweets to give. I usually panic bug them Wednesday

SoyDora · 28/10/2019 16:00

I agree with everyone else... Halloween night or not at all. I won’t buy the sweets for the trick or treaters until Thursday.

nearlyfullycooked · 28/10/2019 16:08

Thought that would be the case. Getting c-sectioned on Friday (date just been moved forward) and have arranged for them to stay at relatives Thursday night. By the time they get there it will be too late for them to go out. Didn't want them associating new baby with missing out on Halloween fun. I'll do something Halloweeny at home with them on Wednesday.

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mrsjg · 28/10/2019 16:11

Thanks for the replies, every days a school day. We don't decorate our house but still get trick or treaters. If we have nothing left to give I just put a sign up on the door saying 'no sweets left'.'

SoyDora · 28/10/2019 16:12

Are there any neighbours you know well enough to ask beforehand if you can come on weds?

Deadringer · 28/10/2019 16:16

If you know your neighbours you could ask a few of them if you could call, I wouldn't mind at all if my neighbors DC called the previous evening once I was pre warned.

Deadringer · 28/10/2019 16:17

Sorry didn't see previous reply saying much the same thing. Alternatively you could have a little party for your DC.

Jeezoh · 28/10/2019 16:18

Could you do a Halloween sweet hunt like you would an Easter egg hunt instead?

CanThingsChange35 · 28/10/2019 16:19

Very unreasonable and I wouldn't open the door. I try to be kind with the whole organised begging from strange children I've never seen before in my life and open my door and hand out sweets but its annoying enough having to do it on one night without parents stretching it beyond Halloween itself.

Thurmanmurman · 28/10/2019 16:20

Don't be so ridiculous

Ginfordinner · 28/10/2019 16:28

How late is too late?

jamesforagirl · 28/10/2019 16:34

Yes course! I’m going on Friday! Hmm

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