I’ve just been shopping, was very tired and laden down with various bags, but DP rang and asked if I’d pick him up some shirts from Primark. Hate going in there as it’s always so busy and chaotic, but went in, picked his shirts, queued up for half an hour etc. I then rang and said I’m on my way home (about half an hour away) and he knew I didn’t have keys on me. Got home and buzzed up to be let into the flat - nothing. Buzzed and buzzed and rang him 3 times - nothing. Car was in the drive so I knew he was in. Pouring with rain here today and I just stood there with his fucking shirts and BLT I’d bought to be nice. Eventually a neighbour came down to let me in, then the flat door was open. I went in and he was lying asleep on the sofa with his pants and trousers pulled down, clearly just had a wank and fallen into some bizarrely deep sleep given how loud our buzzer is I don’t know how he missed it. I woke up him up and said hello?? What are you doing? He said nothing but made a face like id just slapped him, as though v hard done by. Said nothing re shirts, just wordlessly went into the bedroom and is now lying in there sulking. Seriously am I in the wrong?