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To think you don't assume the cake is for everyone.

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Alice6 · 23/10/2019 19:06

Last night I baked a cake. It was a small loaf cake that my colleagues and I had been talking about and I said I would give it a go. It took me quite a while to make and the ingredients weren't cheap. I brought it in and said to one of my colleagues "Sandra, I finally baked it!, would you like a slice? There's a knife here." Pointing to the table where we sit. As she was cutting her piece a few people stood behind her. I hadn't realised that's what they were hanging around for until I looked around and saw most of it gone. I work with about 100 people and about 75% of them use this staff room so I am not making cake for nearly 75 people when I want to treat the few colleagues that I am close to. I wouldn't mind making enough for everyone if there was only 10 of us for example so not to exclude a few people but not this many! AIBU to think you don't just assume you are entitled to a share of something when you haven't even been offered it? When people bring in treats for everyone they will leave them near the microwaves on the worktop with a note not just a tiny cake on a table! I felt too awkward telling them to leave it alone when they had already taken most of it. I'm annoyed that the people I made it for didn't get any after the effort I made. Lesson learned: keep cake in a locked box at break times when you work with locusts!

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MonaLisaDoesntSmile · 26/10/2019 10:49

Some of you are saying that if cake is on display anywhere near you it's fair game even if you've not actually been OFFERED it?

Because people sometimes leave stuff to share and are not around when other come. I left plenty of biscuits and cakes out and would actually be disappointed if by the end of the day they were still there. No one taes anything from staff fridges or personal desks, but leaving things on a communal table (plus announcing it loud) and expecting one person to eat it as others are watching is a bit funny.

Redshoesandtheblues · 30/10/2019 08:59

Has the recipe appeared yet??

Zebraaa · 30/10/2019 10:28

This is very silly.
If I leave a cake in a communal area I expect everyone to help themselves. If I only wanted specific people to have it i’d either keep the cake to myself or tell them to help themselves quick before it all goes.

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