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How can I raise money for a barrister?

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LILLYSHILLINGS · 23/10/2019 16:02

I was sexually, verbally, psychologically, physically and financially abused by my ex partner. He is a nasty piece of work, and I am due in court soon as he wants to see our son. I just cannot allow this to happen. He raped me. He emotionally battered me. He terrifies me and I cannot allow him to have any influence over my son's life. So far the courts have been amazing. They've given him no interim access.

I need ideas re how I can raise 6-10k for a barrister for court. I am not eligible for legal aid even though I don't earn much as I own half of the house (he still lives there and is refusing to sell. I have no access to those funds and it's the equity I own is only 7ishK).

I have no savings. I'm in debt. I have a baby to look after.

Can ANYONE help with suggestions on how to raise this money? Could I crowdfund? I'm not willing to reveal my identity and don't know that crowdfunding would work without showing my face.

In panic mode. I'm drained. Any advice would be fantastic

LouMumsnet · 23/10/2019 17:09

Hello everyone,

We've had a number of reports from people concerned about this thread so, as we usually do in these circs, we're putting our heads round the door with some important reminders.

Right now we can't see any evidence to indicate that the OP isn't above board – if we did, we'd remove the thread straight away. But the truth is that, sadly, we at MNHQ can't know with 100% certainty that any poster is genuine, no matter who they are or how long they have been here. As frustrating as it is, we're not able to vouch for anyone here.

So we always ask users to remember that not everyone on the internet is who they say they are – and remind folk not to give more to another poster, either financially (in cash or gifts) or emotionally (in time or care and support) than they'd be prepared to lose if things went wrong. Though, we strongly advise against parting with any cash or giving away your personal details, and if you receive a PM which makes you uneasy - report it to us and we’ll take a look.

So sorry to hijack your thread briefly there, OP – we really hope you get it all sorted soon.

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