How would you react

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If your dh accused you of lying and being deceitfull? I dont know how to react.
Now he ignores me, wont listen.
I made a decision of what i thought was a minor issue, during a birthday party for son, would tell him after party. But he made a scene and left. Came back , ignoring me, only sending angry text about me being a lier, not to be trusted. How hurt he is.
Wont listen to me, not responding to reson.
This was saturday. Still going on.
Fine he disagrees with my decision, but his reaction is really hurtfull. What would you do?

Gawd i wish i was a lesbian.! Why are men so stupid??!? He is Snoring away, im here, again, by my self.

Gawd i wish i was a lesbian.! Why are men so stupid??!? He is Snoring away, im here, again, by my self.

FFS! What a bloody ridiculous statement!

SOME MEN ARE STUPID, SOME WOMEN ARE STUPID!

Is he stupid or are you stupid for being with him?

Good question.. i dont know. I Think i have a better life with him. I am a better mom with him. Its just this..
Sorry to annoy you..

You're not annoying but you do not need this man! You don't have a better life nor are you a better 'mom' with him. He's appallingly childish and a bully. Now he's snoring and nothing has been resolved.

Your poor ds, not only is he a teenager with ADHD his 'dad' is a wanker ... can't believe he stormed out of the party and is still sulking days later... that is emotional abuse .. have a look For the divorcing sulking husband threads ... your fc don't need this ....even if you are soft no need to be a pushover

averythinline - which thread are you thinking of?

Son is actually in a good mood. H made dinner, they had Nice conversation. He is only sulking to me. And as both kids are teens, they are mostly in rooms, when not eating or we do stuff. So i truly Think they are blisfully unaware.
Last week son Said “i wish i could skip all the dating and just get what you and dad have” - that say something about how we usually are.. we are mostly happy. I also have ADHD. I only work 10 hours , in h Company, from home. I make most desicions around kids. Sometimes i forget to chek in.
But he is a sulker. He is. And he know he is. He is also happy with me in charge of money. House, kids, plans. He is working hard, at work and at home.
But he freak out when he feel disrespected. Which i did not mean to do. And he has no skills to dicuss..

It is actually good to write here. My teenager son Said “i wish i could skip all the dating and get what you and dad have” - isnt that a compliment??
He just has no diskussion skills!
I am in charge of all desicions. Money, weekend plans, House, - he just have a hard time accepting sons ADHD. And son is lazy. For sure. But also so sweet. And they have good relation. With my support .
Im talking to my self. I love my h. He Can be an Ass. But he is my sulking ass 😊
I just wanted to know if i was wrong in giving son the 15 euro
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Well you were not wrong to give him the 15 euro.

I'm glad you've managed to have a proper conversation and both see each other's points of view.

You weren't wrong about the 15 euros!

Your son is not the best judge of an adult relationship would you really want him to be bullied by sulking? Or is he going to be the sulker u can be nice and caring without having to be treated like that