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To want to know why vendors are selling

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shoebedobedobedobedoo · 20/10/2019 17:39

We are at exchange stage(as in about to). Nothing has come up in survey or searches. When we first looked at the house EA said vendors were moving due to ‘change of circumstances‘. On second viewing we were told vendors had already moved out into rented. They had taken NOTHING with them. No furniture, no kids toys, nothing. It looked like they had walked out one morning and hadn’t come back. We had our offer accepted (had to increase twice). We have subsequently had 2 other nebulous reasons as to why they are selling, and most recently told they wanted to move to a detached house. On our 3rd viewing all the woman’s was gone, but not the mans. All kids stuff still there. Pre exchange visit almost everything gone.We know (via reliable village gossip) that they have moved into a much smaller rented property less than 1/2 mile away. Were they sleeping and sitting on the floor? Neither direct neighbour even knew they were moving or that the house was on the market until we knocked on their doors. They haven’t spoken to the neighbours to tell them they are going/have gone.
The house has had extensive work done by the vendors, all in a diy kind of fashion.
Why would anyone move out of an obviously loved family home into a smaller rented place before they have even had an offer on their house? And why all the odd reasons for moving. Why not at least just give one reason and stick to it. We are worried that there may be something major wrong with the house, not picked up in the survey (there a long list in our last purchase) or the vendors know something about an as yet unpublicised building project (it’s surrounded by farm land). Would you be worried about buying this house or am I over thinking this?

OP posts:
MelGrange · 23/10/2019 08:38

@stillcoughingandlaughing

You really are one of the nastiest posters on here. You must lead such a sad life to have have to behave like this, in order to make yourself feel important.

Sweetchicken · 23/10/2019 10:43

Definitely haunted.

Oliversmumsarmy · 23/10/2019 16:00

Sweetchicken

I had feedback from a viewer of a cottage I had for sale who said it wasn’t haunted as the reason she didn’t want to buy my house.

I laughed as although I am not woo in any shape or form there was definitely something not quite right with that house that I could only put down to it being haunted.

LochJessMonster · 23/10/2019 16:04

they wanted to move to a detached house - ie noisy neighbours. Having nightmare noisy neighbours can ruin a perfect house.

StillCoughingandLaughing · 23/10/2019 17:46

You really are one of the nastiest posters on here. You must lead such a sad life to have have to behave like this, in order to make yourself feel important.

With the whole infamous nest of vipers to choose from? That’s quite a compliment.

thewayoftheplatypus · 23/10/2019 17:53

I thought most people selling their houses were vague about why there were selling? We just sold ours- made vague noises about upsizing when the buyers asked (which is true- we did upsize). But the real reason we moved is because the local secondary schools are all shit. Why would we tell potential buyers that?! Let them do there own research! As long as your surveys are fine, you’ll probably never no the real reason they’re moving, and it’s not really any of your business

gamerchick · 23/10/2019 17:54

We do really want to live in a community, so I’d be pretty sad if neighbours of 20 years didn’t know each other’s names.and business by the looks of it.

I don't know my neighbours other than next door. Have no interest in it either.

You do sound a bit intense. Buy the house, don't buy the house. Other than that it's nowt to do with you why they've moved out already.

HollyGoLoudly1 · 23/10/2019 18:40

OP I'm going to back you up here. I also check water pressure, open cupboards, go in the attic, check the garage, ask for the central heating to be turned on, check the hot water temperature. And repeat this on a second, and sometimes 3rd viewing. I learned the hard way after buying a total nightmare property with my first house purchase.

I also would be suspicious about being given constantly different reasons about moving. This happened to me before and it did put me off. Yes, it could be totally personal and nothing to do with the house/neighbours/area. But what if it's not? And I've just sunk 6 figures into another nightmare? I don't think it's my business to know the nitty gritty details if it's personal, but it's absolutely my business to know if there's a genuine reason behind the sale or if they're just trying to dump it on another sucker.

justasking111 · 23/10/2019 20:08

Well the hot water temperature is adjustable so why check that?

I could not go in someone`s cupboards, that is an invasion of privacy to my mind.

As for expecting three viewings that is somewhat over the top.

StillCoughingandLaughing · 23/10/2019 22:39

You really are one of the nastiest posters on here. You must lead such a sad life to have have to behave like this, in order to make yourself feel important.

Oh dear - not been back, Mel? Did I not crumble as you’d hoped?

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