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Aibu food issues

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purplelila2 · 07/10/2019 20:03

Hi All

I need some advice on what to do if I'm being unreasonable or how to handle this.

so my H works in a manual job doing night shifts I also work full time and we have 3 kids.

The issue is he never wants to eat anything i cook at home and constantly wants to get takeaways.
It doesnt matter what I make he doesnt want it.

We cant really afford it but then he says Im only getting peri peri chicken 🤢 which doesnt cost a lot

I've bought a gorge foreman grill and bought the nandos spice packets and sauces and that wasnt good enough.

Nothing I ever make is good enough.

Its not a case of I cant cook because I can .

Anything I make is according to him shit from curries to quiche to cottage pie .

AIBU?
what should i do?

Aside from health reasons and financial cost I dont want my kids eating a takeout regularly either as he picks the kids up from school and gives them their tea.

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purplelila2 · 07/10/2019 20:08

Oh and if I ask him what he wants when he tells me he doesnt fancy the dinner I've made the answer is always 'dont know' or 'fast food' !!!!

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northernknickers · 07/10/2019 20:11

He's bloody rude...why are you with him????

Get him to cook if he thinks you're so bad at it...cheeky fuckwit!! I'd seriously be getting rid of him if it was me 😡

PurpleDaisies · 07/10/2019 20:14

It must be costing a fortune. Really selfish of him to behave like that.

Is this a new thing or has he always been like this?

purplelila2 · 07/10/2019 20:16

He hasn't always been like this its gotten worse recently.

I think eating out or 1 takeaway a week on a Friday or Saturday night is reasonable not almost every other day .

He'll want chicken wings and chips or that peri peri chicken and chips or rice .

I'm really fed up with it tbh

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