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To ask what your dream career is?

159 replies

TheJoxter · 07/10/2019 18:42

I’ve never known what I want to be ‘when I grow up’

Now I’m grown up and I still don’t know!

AIBU to ask you to tell me what your dream career is? (And hopefully inspire me!)

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ShadowKitty · 08/10/2019 19:12

I'll join the queue for full time novelist... My dream is to have a little shed in a beautiful garden where I can sit and write the books I love to write and people actually read them... As it is I'm doing a job I hate while my beloved life's works languish at 564,977 in the Amazon chart. I think most creative pursuits are sadly not viable as actual jobs so deciding what I wanted to do for a living at 40 has been bitter sweet!

vintagesewingmachine · 08/10/2019 19:16

@suitepea. That's my dream job too. Would love to do something like thatSmile

thisnamechanger · 08/10/2019 19:18

Or chef! But the hours seem hell.

SimonJT · 08/10/2019 19:19

Rugby player, I only manage to be semi-pro and the pay wasn’t enough to not work.

Grinding · 08/10/2019 19:21

Social worker/therapist.

I’m doing my dream job. And it genuinely is a dream come true. Pinch myself every day that I get to get up and go do this for a living!

Rowrowboat · 08/10/2019 19:28

Havent RTFT but I bet there’s a few Librarian because it must be lovely to work in peace and look at books all day.

Seriously, I’m a Librarian and it’s nothing like people imagine and it is really really hard work.

I’d love to write a book one day so author would be my dream career but It would have to be as author who makes decent money. You only need one good idea though.

IwantedtobeEmmaPeel · 08/10/2019 19:39

A karate expert and butt kicking shiny haired spy obs.

In the real world a speech therapist.

Hepte · 08/10/2019 19:54

A professional powerlifter. I only discovered it as a hobby a couple of years ago and only started training more seriously in the last 6 months but I would love to be able to train and compete as a career.

Iamthewombat · 08/10/2019 19:59

I, too, wish that I had joined the police.

I’m an accountant. I like it, I am good at it and I earn more than most police officers (except Cressida Dick and chief constables). I still wish that I had joined the police though.

Seemstress · 08/10/2019 20:00

I wanted to be a Dr when I was girl, missed the boat though, I was academically capable but lazy.....ended up working dull office jobs for large house builders, the Local Authority and shitty call centres.
I now have a very niche non-clinical forensic mental health role that's interesting but 20 years of mental health work is taking it's toll. I have a sideline wedding/celebraion cake business that is my therapy and allows my artistic side to flourish..I would love to do this full time but it's competitive and hard work. I also home board dogs which I love, I have a couple of blind rescue dogs that I rehomed and they love the extra doggie company. I'm looking to expand into more boarding and dog walking whilst decreasing the hours in my full time job.

mumwon · 08/10/2019 20:01

an astronaut first woman on Mars & colonist (but I need all my family to come as well & that might be an issue Grin )

360eyes · 08/10/2019 20:02

Chocolatier

Interior designer

Script writer

A researcher in a natural science where I get to travel the world (if I didn't have children) or in psychology or neuropsychology (should have stayed on after BSc and done a masters degree, nevermind)

ItIsWhatItIsInnit I am actually trying to get in to what you do for a living as I'm a data analyst and want to broaden my horizons. I have bought online courses on the theory and programming languages, but have not had time to do them. I wonder what we would all achieve if it wasn't for our day jobs and our kids!

Weepingwillows12 · 08/10/2019 20:08

I would love to be an artist living in a remote seaside cottage somewhere creating things from driftwood or having a huge room where you can just throw paint at stuff Grin. Sadly I dont have any artistic ability whatsoever. Or option 2, historian. Or option 3 travel writer.

ItIsWhatItIsInnit · 08/10/2019 20:11

@360eyes, nice! I actually started my new job last week and (fingers crossed) am enjoying it so far :)

I used to be a statistician in the pharma industry but it is mind-numbingly dull and very regulated, whereas my job now (different industry completely) seems to be a lot more interesting with a lot more creative freedom of how to approach things. Good luck! I'm the same with sewing - I've paid for online courses but then never get round to them...

I find evening classes are good, as once you're there you get really into it. Maybe try those for programming?

DontGoIntoTheLongGrass · 08/10/2019 20:13

Deep sea explorer and go hunt for prehistoric monsters at the bottom of the sea.

Or police. I settled for police Grin

onemorecakeplease · 08/10/2019 20:22

Dog rescued or professional dog cuddler

Obviously it would be fabulously well paid and I would have someone else pick up all the poop.

Imagine spending the day walking and cuddling dogs all day! Bliss!

Spaceprincess · 08/10/2019 20:50

1960s glamorous international Jewel thief with a catsuit and an entourage of eccentric villains.

ShinyMe · 08/10/2019 21:02

I would like to be a stage manager in the theatre (plays rather than musicals please). I didn't realise until I was too old though, so I'll have to stick to just going to the theatre a lot.

00deed1988 · 08/10/2019 21:07

Midwife... and I just retrained, qualified and due to start my 1st registered midwife job next month :D So dream job become a reality!

QuaterMiss · 08/10/2019 21:30

You probably aren’t ‘too old’ ShinyMe - though drama school training would (at any age) require a good deal of energy and probably some expense if you want a professional career.

You’d need to start with some amateur work anyway, just to get on to a decent degree/postgrad course. Have you actually tried stage-managing?

Coulddowithanap · 08/10/2019 21:43

Firefighter

SnuffleBadger · 09/10/2019 03:01

I have always wanted to be a funeral director

malificent7 · 09/10/2019 03:12

Artist
Conservation biologist
Clothes designer
Travel writer

ClockworkNightingale · 09/10/2019 09:33

I'd like to be a microbiologist.

I'm actually a nurse.

FieldsOf · 09/10/2019 10:21

@pumpkinpie2016
Can I ask how old you are? I'm a detective and worked my way up from PC. Could you become a special constable first see how you like it? (Volunteer officer but with all the same powers as a regular PC)

For me, I'd love to join the mounted division but my force don't have one and it's almost impossible to get into!