My daughter is pregnant and living me me at the moment. Her husband comes when he's not working. I am not charging her rent so they can save up for a place of their own. I was eating my breakfast of hummus and crackers and she started adding up all the calories, saying l am overweight and its causing my arthritis. My BMI is overweight but not obese and this morning I am trying a new fitness class and she was shouting at me. I was so upset I went upstairs and shut the door and cried. Surely she shouldn't be speaking to me like this. AIBU?