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To ask what to buy a friend recovering from cervical cancer?

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wishihadagoodone · 03/10/2019 14:05

Putting together a gift basket and looking for ideas.
She's having surgery next week and I'm going to see her next weekend.

Any and all ideas welcome!

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Rachelover60 · 03/10/2019 14:10

Things that you know she likes. no different from any other time.
Hopefully your friend wlll recover.

purplerainpurplerain · 03/10/2019 14:25

Hope her surgery goes well. What about things like face masks, a good book or 2, a little good luck charm, her favourite snacks, just a few I can think of off the top of my head.

purplerainpurplerain · 03/10/2019 14:27

Also maybe nice pair of pjs/slippers I mean who doesn't love a nice new pair!

Loveislandaddict · 03/10/2019 14:28

Magazine to read
Toiletries
Sweets
Hand cream
Peppermint tea *
Jelly babies *

  • good for post surgery constipation/wind (if you get it with this op)
readingismycardio · 03/10/2019 16:47

A nice book/magazine
A nice scented candle (if she likes them)
Her favourite chocolate/snacks
A handcream
A lip balm
A pair of lovely warm slippers

wishihadagoodone · 03/10/2019 17:37

Ah thanks guys!

@Loveislandaddict that's the kind of things I hadn't thought about. Anything to help the actual recovery from the surgery. Peppermint tea is a great idea!!

Has anyone had a similar op and found anything in particular helpful for afterwards?

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LauraPalmersBodybag · 03/10/2019 17:40

I’m currently in hospital and my dh has just bought me some wireless headphones so I can listen to tv/podcasts at night without getting tangled. They also help me to sleep as I can have one in as I drop off and it helps drown out the other sounds.

teatimedreamer · 03/10/2019 17:44

I've had cervical cancer. I had the op and then chemoradiation.

After the op, you tend to be sofa bound. I would say some nice smellies (I got some Clinique off my parents which was lovely), some nice slippers or something similar, favourite foods etc. I also got a load of amazon vouchers from work which I spent on audiobooks, DVDs, music etc. Childcare help too as I was so sore a bustling house is a nightmare. Various people took me for very short walks for a nice coffee and back to the car before I passed out in pain.

If it's chemoradiation it's quite different - spaced out, don't care about anything, trying not to vomit. I didn't want anything then!

Maldives2006 · 03/10/2019 17:53

There is a website called “Not another bunch of flowers” that specialise in gifts for people recovering from cancer.

Sleepinglemon · 03/10/2019 19:26

One of those little cushion wedge shape tablet holders. Very handy if spending time in bed/on the sofa recovering.

Witchinaditch · 03/10/2019 19:46

A book called F* you cancer. I wish your friend all the best

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