A few years ago I bought a lovely Xmas tree, quite expensive aswell but we needed a new one and I bought with the intention of having this tree for years, had it up for two Christmases, kept in garage then last Oct/Nov time DH sorting out garage and threw away the tree🎄😢, I wasn't happy at all and certainly told him! We bought another tree, cheaper and not as lovely as last one. AIBU if I give this tree to charity and purchase a tree I actually like without discussing with DH first? 