After a couple of years struggling with Menopause symptoms, I am now on HRT, which has made a big difference to the quality of my day to day life which is a big relief.
However my sex drive is still not on message. My OH has always had a better sex drive than me and things recently came to a head after 3 weeks with no action. He was waiting for me to initiate things, and when I didn't, he expressed his frustrations with the comment "Do have any idea how rubbish it is to have sex with someone who you know doesn't want it"
I was so upset - what does he expect from me?
If I don't have a sex drive how can I win ? If I say no, he's angry, if I do it to keep the peace he's angry!
Hopefully, now I am on HRT, I can have testosterone treatment to help my Libido, but to be honest, I am a bit to hacked off with him now.