Things you can’t actually say

[coffeeandrainbows]

I haven’t seen a thread like this in a while and I have to let this out before I scream:

S - you are selfish, immature, lazy and a bad mum to your kid. I can’t believe our relationship has come to this. I feel like I have always been there for you and done so much for you. I’m almost happy that you’ve done what you did as I have realised just how little effort you put into our relationship and how little it must mean to you. You only care about yourself and you always have.

D - you enabling fuck, I see you now and I will never be fooled again. You are just as bad as the two of them, if not worse.

That feels better, anyone else holding something in?

Yes I am shagging someone 30 years younger than me. And its wonderful.

K - Wow! You really WERE embarrassed by your situation, weren't you? And you knew I knew, didn't you? This vexed you such that you thought you'd do your best to bully me out of a job and try to lose me my friends and reputation along the way....
Sorry, love, didn't work, did it? I still have my friends, my reputation, an even better job and what do you have.....? Well, a car crash of a life it would appear....hey ho, karma and all that, eh babe?

Love that FatLass! I’m so glad there’s also some happy thing you can’t say as well as the hard ones

J - You didnt expect it to be this way did you? All of our lives you have excluded members of your family to punish them and you get the rest of the family to join in too. Its always been that way, its happened to every single one of us at some point

I seemed to be the favourite for this. Was it because i always confronted you? Even as a child id say that it wasnt right.

The last time you tried to punish me you told me not to come snivelling back to you next time he smashed my face in, you turned my siblings against me because i in turn didnt turn on the latest person you had "evicted" from the family

You knew my partner at the time was an alcoholic, you knew i was vulnerable and i was being hurt by this man, you knew my family was the only bit of support i had and you truly punished me for it didnt you

You wanted me to turn up at your house with my face smashed in with a toddler and newborn in tow begging for your help. Cause id normally break from months of isolation and contact you wouldnt i?

How fucking annoyed are you that its been 3 years and ive not been in touch?

I gave birth to my baby alone,
I took the man who beat me for years to court on my own. He was found guilty and was given a restraining order to stay away from me and the children.
I moved away from the town id lived in for 22 years on my own

What kept me from snivelling back to you was the fact youd said that to me. I was never going to give you the satisfaction of me needing you ever again

I dont thinj i will ever get over how malicious you are, how long youve soent turnibg your children against their fathers, against each other and against their families

You wanted me to cry at your door so you could be the hero, how mad are you that i havnt? My children will not grow up in that toxic cycle you have in our family, their not being part of it

You now claim nowadays that im crazy, a drug addict and i abuse my children

3 years ago it would of really bothered me. Now i see you for what you are and when you cant control people you paint them to be a villain

M - You should have never had children. My entire life you've lied, belittled and gaslit everyone around you and now I've broken free you can't cope.
You was so happy to palm me off to someone with severe mental health issues every weekend and when it all blew up you acted innocent. I'll never be able to forgive or trust you. You knew what she was capable of and you knew I was scared of him and you still couldn't be bothered. It was more important that you could spend your weekends in bed not being disturbed by your own child.
I can see who you really are and you're going to end up alone, lonely and bitter. And I won't be there to take your anger.

Irritating acquaintance-

Stop pouting on Instagram then claiming low self esteem on the group chat. Stop trying to be a mummy blogger and moaning about how hectic life is with “two babies”. Oh and FYI, they are toddlers not babies-and you deliberately got pregnant with the second so stop fucking complaining.

Also, stop with the “Ooh isn’t my garden big and beautiful” I know that picture was taken at the local park

H- if you say one more nasty thing to my DD I’ll rip your head off you little bitch.

S, You are so incredibly self absorbed and selfish. You are incapable of being by yourself for five minutes or taking any responsibility for your actions. You always have to be right and your immaturity for a man of your age is appalling. I think you are an absolute user and I wish I had never met you or supported you like I have. You have caused me untold pain. Your girlfriend is an absolute drip and you would fall apart if you split despite what you say. You have no inner strength and its an embarrassment. You think you are amazing but you're an absolute knobend. Fuck you.

C-You are such a drip. If you really loved S, you would have let him heal before jumping in and 'saving ' him. You are like a teenage girl around him and clearly have very low self esteem and self respect. He is still so caught up with H and you don't or can't see it. You think he is amazing but just wait until you at on the end of his dismissive and rude behaviour. As it will reveal itself. Then you will understand why he has multiple kids by different mums and keeps finding himself in the same fricking patterns time and time again. This love of the century thing is pretty pathetic when your whole relationship is based on fun weekends and little else.

GREAT thread!

O - You are SUCH an insufferable spoilt pandered to selfish know it all. You dont not have friends because other people are awful, you dont have any friends because you are so incredibly self centered people get sick of you. How can you pride yourself in being scientific minded and then refuse to accept that your depression, anxiety, fatigue and stomach issues MIGHT have something to do with your fucking horrendous diet? Oh and dont throw the 'thats not how depression works' shit at us - fair enough if you had tried and it didnt work but you've never even tried! And then expect everyone else to bend over backwards to accomodate you in an increasingly jaw-dropping number of ways.

A & E - You both think you are so clever and have everyone fooled but everyone sees you for what you are - lazy, entitled, mean.

N - You are a complete hypochondriac, there is nothing wrong with you that losing some weight wouldn’t cure! You say you don’t eat, you’re talking shite woman, you’re getting bigger and bigger!! You need to open your eyes to your DD too, she’s using you, AGAIN! She’s not arsed about a relationship with you, she just wants free childcare!

S - I thought we were friends, obviously not. You blatantly lied, your DS, the sneaky little rat also lied and was proved to have done so too! What sort of person does that?? You’re vile, and your kitchen is shit too! Glitter and Prosecco signs? Vom!

L - You swan around like Lady Muck, thinking you’re better than everyone else with your lip fillers and boob job, you look fucking ridiculous!! I’d love to tell everyone what you did I really would, that would knock you right off your pedestal, but it would hurt your DM and I love her so I won’t. But you’re a fake, nasty woman and I’m glad I’m not blood related to you.

C - you're going to be a lazy, hateful mother. I hope you go back to work full time within a few months because for the sake of your child, that is what will be best for everyone. You're a self absorbed, selfish, jealous c*nt and are threatened by anyone who you perceive to be better than you in any way. Which, most people are, in most ways.

I dread the upbringing your child will have. You are not maternal. You are hopeless with children. I have even seen you hit your dog.

I wanted to hit you twice as hard.

I hope your OH sees sense and walks and takes the baby with him. Everyone else hopes for the same.

L- I just wish you knew how much our mother desperately wanted you to see her, to speak to her, to stop ignoring her. She wanted to be your mother again. and I loathe you for your two pathetic visits to her when she was dying and didn't even know who you were.
You shouted at the hospital doctors, demanded you be allowed to speak to her and generally acted as if you cared, which I know damn well you didn't. Your vile arrogant son has my contempt too. 'Too busy' to visit his dying grandmother with his part time job and childless life? Funny how me and dd1 with our five children between us and full time jobs managed to care for her for the years before and the months in hospital, when she was bewildered, in pain and unsure what was happening Mind you, you managed to cash your inheritances pretty sharpish didn't you? Shame you couldn't make her funeral either - too cowardly to face us all

I never ever want to see you again

O - I can't believe you strung us along for two and a half months only to drop out the day before exchange. You fucked up 3 families lives, all the plans we had made for our future house and the kids school. I can't think about it without crying, the stress has flared up my chronic illness and we have lost so much fucking money. I actually hate you, I dont give a fuck what happened on your end, you are a selfish, stupid dickhead for not realising you didnt actually have the funds you needed to buy this house. Also, I hate your stupid solicitor and our stupid estate agents for not doing their fucking due diligence and catching it earlier

D enough just enough, I don't need to know all about your new guy and how he moved, I don't need to hear about gs I don't need to be dragged inti meetings because of what others do. Enough she learns to stand on her own or sod off.
S you say you would stand up for anyone hah! I was being targeted over the summer and still ended up seeing the same person over and over after you promised in front of witnesses I wouldn't have to go into see that person.
Other D, you lying conving two faced manipulative cow how dare you play chummy with me in front of my kid when you know what you did to me causing me so much crap it's unbelivable.
C stop just stop you are so spoilt anyone else would have just got on with it seriously , we have all been targeted one way or another but just get over it and stop acting like your the only one who gets stuff said behind their back I know you said stuff to staff about me enough.
J you are amazing you deserve so much more than you get
H you are a liar two faced cow
D what the hell did I say for God's sake! You got told the procedures you don't follow them fine but you were warned and I'm not having it on my concious that I taught you something.
LM behave for God's sake just behave for me please sleep in your own bed please please I am exhausted.

D- you’re a fucking arsehole of the highest degree. I wish you would fuck off and leave us all alone, the kids are better off without you, all you do is let them down time and time again because you are a selfish prick who only thinks with his penis. Your children are not accessories to show off when it suits you. Grow the fuck up, take responsibility for your actions or bugger off

P- your sweeter than sweet demeanour isn’t fooling anyone. We all know what you’re really like, quick to kick someone under the bus to save your own skin.

R- I think about you every day and miss you so much

Either shag me or don't. Don't piss about with all this emotional torture. It isn't noble, it's getting on my nerves.

You don't have to lie and make yourself out to be the centre of the universe. I love what you are already. Your latest fib was so ridiculous.....

I love you.

V - I can’t stand your wounded little angel act a second longer. Every time your lip starts to quiver because something didn’t go your way or you got called out on your shit, I want to laugh and laugh and laugh. And then I want to hit you in the face with a frying pan; preferably with the full English still in it. Then you’d actually have something to cry about - you pretentious, two-faced hideous lump. By the way, the reason your ‘diet’ isn’t working despite eating ‘loads of salad’ is that eating half a roast chicken and/or a whole tub of homous in one sitting with it kind of outweighs the benefits. That’s why you look like a toilet block with a wig on.

Hello Mrs SMITHTHTHTH
I could call you a lot worse, but I know that this bothers you sooooo much more. This one really thinks that she’s the dogs bollocks here, it comes complete with fake posh voice. You lived round the corner from her for years, but you rarely visited. Although she never had much money she’d line the kids pocket money up on the shelf every week, she’d never touch it no matter how hard things were for her. Years later I discovered that you kept away away because of me, you were jealous she told me. You tried to turn everyone against me with your lies. I thought it strange when you & Mr Benefit Fraud began to take an interest in her all of a sudden. At least you turned up for her, even if it was just to steal her money. Some people complain that they never get what’s due to them in life, & all I can say is that it’s a fucking good job that they don’t!
All my love Mommy’s little favourite x

N-You came into my life unexpectedly but somehow you have become a light to me when all seemed dark. You quite literally hold my hand and it makes me feel less alone. My little angel.

D-You are such a patronizing knob at times. Step outside of yourself for one moment and think what my life has been like for 5 seconds. You are very narcissistic and expect to be looked after like a child. I am tired of your crap and your condescending ways.

L- what happened that made you become so toxic towards me? You were always a cheeky fucker taking advantage of my fragile MH and my people pleasing but I was willing to put that to the back of my mind as I thought you had my back.
Turns out the stronger I get the less you dare take advantage and you don't like the new me who can say 'No' to your suggestions and cheeky fuckery. It's MY day off so I will decide what I do with it. If I want to sit on my arse alone in my home reading a book and eating chocolate then thats up to me. I shouldn't have to apologise for not wanting to go wherever you want me to go with you just to keep you company and be there for you to take the piss out of me in front of others or 'forget' your purse so I have to buy your shopping.
You always told me to grow a backbone and now I have you don't like it.
Also, I won't be accepting any more 'favours' you offer i.e lifts/ watching dc for half an hour while I go to an appointment or anything you offer as to be frank, I know you expect cash in return and it's infuriating, especially as my family would help me out for free and real friends wouldn't expect money for a mile trip down the road if you are going anyway.
You have had the last you will ever get out of me.

F - I would go public about the fact you bullied me and refused to stop even when I apologised repeatedly, and the names you called me, even though you knew I was between meds and I wasn't well, and the fact that I ended up taking an overdose because I couldn't bear the fact that someone I'd looked up to since I was 12 was angry with me, but what's the point? It'll just feed your narrative that I play the victim, and everyone will believe you anyway because you're Mr Big Rock Star and I'm just a stupid delusional fangirl. I still love your music and I might even start going your band's gigs again, but as one of your own songs says, the more I see you, the more I want to hit you.

And you're 53 years old and you're STILL trolling rival football fans on Twitter under a fake name, even though you admitted it was stupid. Grow up.

A

This is like the 2 minute hate. Grotesque, actually.

Susanna there is a glitter bomb coming your way. Revenge is best served stone cold