So, long story short, I will have to get legally married rather quickly (UK citizen living in France - was already engaged just speeding up the process). We'll have a small ceremony in December with close family from both sides. A larger ceremony will be planned around March 2020.
Here's the dilemma: my mum wants to stay at my house with her new husband.
I've met her husband three times, each for 5/10 minutes (v.v.quick marriage 
) and while he's nice enough he's still a stranger. I'm very nervous around new people (especially men) and like don't really like sharing my personal space with strangers.
When I bought up the idea of her leaving husband behind she wasn't having any of it (wasn't worth the argument) and when I asked where she was staying she was shocked at the mere thought of staying at a hotel.
When I asked if she was going to take a hotel on my wedding night she was even MORE shocked and then said "she'll be upstairs and put earplugs in 
).
So MN, do I let my mum and her "hubby" stay upstairs or do I stand my ground and make her take a hotel?