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Sapiosexual - AIBU to think this is bisexual by another name?

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Flippetydip · 19/09/2019 13:05

Apparently the new thing is sapiosexual - to be attracted to intelligence before gender. Surely that is just bisexual - why does it need another name?

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MisunderstoodMaleficent · 19/09/2019 15:26

@verticality you shouldn’t be embarrassed about it. Obviously you don’t have to tell anyone, but even internally you should be embarrassed, you’re allowed to have a type.

MisunderstoodMaleficent · 19/09/2019 15:27

@JaneJeffer I feel like you could have a very successful, very specific career coming up with names for sexualities 😆

AHintOfStyle · 19/09/2019 15:29

@escapade1234

*Why do young people need labels for everything?

Can’t they just BE?*

Completely agree with this

Butchyrestingface · 19/09/2019 15:31

I’m quite attracted to rich old blokes with dodgy tickers.

When oh when will my preferences be acknowledged?

verticality · 19/09/2019 15:35

The thing I don't like about the labels is that they come over as a narcissistic personal claim to minority status. "Oh look at me, I'm a member of this little-recognised sexual group who are struggling for recognition". It's really silly, and undermining to those fighting for genuine and collective rights on behalf of LGBTQ groups whohave suffered significant persecution over the years. Just because you get turned on by the sight of a toaster does not make you part of a persecuted and misunderstood minority with a long history of discrimination FFS!

I also have little time for those sexual subgroups of people who insist that they have a monopoly on transgression. E.g. "We are the authentic kind of sub/dom partnership; others are either impossibly vanilla or do not count in some other minor way". Grow the fuck up and stop trying to police everything!!!

LordProfFekkoThePenguinPhD · 19/09/2019 15:36

So do you need to find a compatible label then? That must make dating interesting.

JaneJeffer · 19/09/2019 15:47

Thanks Misunderstood Grin I'd love a job like that! Sorry I forgot to bold your post in mine. (We need an edit button.)

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