To be annoyed with husband following women in underwear in instragram

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Basically what he title says, he doesn't comment or like but seems to want to follow them.
I'm offended and feel embarrassed by him.
Also likes something called lamp lovers!
I have ocd and sadly this causes me to not trust my own judgement.

Errr YANBU in my book, I’d be very upset if DH did this.

I’d be upset if my DH did this too.

I’ve seen Lamp Lovers- a colleague of DH’s kept sending him photos. You’re not Andy’s wife, are you??

My DP follows a lot of the suicide girls on insta. Doesn't bother me. I follow people like Jason Momoa because I like to gawp at him.

PS What is Lamp Lovers? guessing it's something I shouldn't google at work.

It’s a kind of spoof page featuring lamps... accompanied by girls.

Sorry, women!

My DW follows hunky firemen on Facebook and I follow soccer babes on Twitter. We just appreciate good looking people not wearing a lot!

I couldn't get worked up by this personally. I drool over Cillian Murphy and Tom Hardy - he quite likes Sarah Michelle Gellar and some other actress i can't remember name of. End of the day its my bed he gets in and out of everyday and me he comes home to.

Ha thanks @Shockers. I might have a butch later and get some lamp inspo

DH liked a page of FB called The Gap which was all photographs of womens thigh gaps.......... he was sent a link to it by his golf mate . What he didn't realise was that everyone on his friend list would see he had liked it, including my family and friends. I had several comments made..........

So I picked up his ipad and removed all of them from his friends list. Job done. And told him if he was going to ever embarass me like that again, he'd be a single man.

I would hate it and think it was a bit pathetic.

I think in a healthy relationship it wouldn't be so bad but for a relationship with history of secretiveness and lies it just adds to the mental torture.
If this I what I see him looking at from home what does he do when I'm not there.
Sadly I have trust issues and he knows this.
Most of them come from his past phone/pc use messaging and things.

Well I follow accounts of hot men with 6 packs, do different to that really 🤷🏻‍♀️

DH knows but his not bothered.....

Also want to add the women are like models - might be a bad choice of words but more like dirty attention seekers.

Unless he started commenting some colourful things, it wouldn't bother me

Thank you for the honest replies, they help :)

Sorry meant to say the women weren't like models, as in they are not tasteful shots.

I've just had a look at this with my DP. I couldn't get upset about it. I think I would have done with one of my exes though. It's all about the vibe for me.

I don't think 'man likes looking at pretty girls' is a particularly scandalous revelation, to be honest. Plenty of men, and women, follow attractive models, actors etc on Instagram for a gawp.

If he was interacting with them and posting comments, that would be a bit different I think. I find it slightly creepy and really quite tragic when a 20something model/actor/presenter posts a pic on social media and immediately a load of middle-aged blokes with slack-jawed expressions in their profile pics start attempting to get their attention with replies.

That the thing I the instagram girls aren't pretty girls they're named like saucy sally. Very suggestive, not tasteful, I'm not being a prude over things if I thought it was porn on the pc or model in underwear but it's not like that.
I guess it's the content and fact they're just regular women rather than paid models so to speak.

I follow good looking men and women on insta so it would be hypocritical if me to start complaining. Any interactions would be over the line for me though.

I’d not be best pleased but it’s not like he’s messaging women, my dp likes pics of Michelle keegan on Instagram. As long as it’s not a sexy underwear pic of the lady 3 doors down I wouldn’t let it bother you.

No but then both my husband and I have more respect for each other.

That's a bit sleazy and immature.