My DC left a club because bluntly the provider picked on my child under the guise of "discipline" (it really wasn't). It didn't end well with DC wanting to leave, though I managed to remain civil with the provider and keep the removal smooth for DC.
The provider chucked me out of all social media groups and I thought fine, we don't use you, why should i have access to closed groups. However, it has come to my attention that on the publicity material she often uses certain pictures that include my DC. I don't feel comfortable with this. How would you deal?