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AIBU to have try for a natural birth after 4c sections?

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ClareBear2019 · 10/09/2019 11:01

I've just found out that I'm pregnant with DC #4. My previous 3 DC were all c sections, the 1st emergency, the next 2 elective. I want to try for a natural birth this time, as I know c sections get progressively more risky the more you have. DH says I'm being ridiculous and says a c section is the safest option. I see both options as having risks, so why not take the least damaging one?
AIBU for wanting to at least try for a natural birth? WWYD?

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seaweedandmarchingbands · 24/10/2019 11:04

The language from some people on the thread is concerning: allowed, the midwife won’t consider it. Etc.

Neither the midwife nor the consultant is giving birth. Their role is to advise. The role of the OP is to decide.

Personally, I would consider the risks of either too high and probably wouldn’t have another child. But that’s me. Once they have informed you of the risks associated with each of your choices, the rest is up to you.

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