Hi there, I stumbled across this feed and it so hit a nerve with me.
If I can bore you with a story, please read on. I'm not a mum, I'm a dad, ex-military dad and when my time in the Army was up, I had lived out of the UK more than in it.
A friend suggested to me me that I start a new life working with Autistic personnel, I'll freely admit, I had never even heard the term before, however, long story really short I've spent the last 6 years gaining a little insight into how these individuals see and sort the world around them. It's not been easy, but hell it's been rewarding.
I decided a few months into working in the private sector that me and my [selected] co-workers could have a much greater impact on the lives and well-being of those people we assist in getting through the day and having a laugh on the way.
Anyhoo, as a support worker [Not my choice of classification] earning £8.16p an hour I decided to setup my own facility for those who needed residential care / facilities.
The process took nearly 2 years to complete, the relevant local authorities and Welsh assembly were rightly demanding in attention to detail and qualifications, so with planning permission completed, building regulations signed-off and registration with all entities completed I was [am] the proud owner of a facility in the heart of a district of town just 10 minutes walk away from all local facilities.
I forgot to mention that at the planning stage I was hit upon by the local community council who had raised a petition to stop me from building this much-needed facility; one of their objections was "a concern at the level of autism in the area" another was "the proximity to the local school".
Now I have seen a few threads where the costs are considered excessive, and at the outset, I too believed this, however, consider this, to staff this facility for 24 hours / 7 days a week adds up to 168 hours, just to pay min wage wage that comes to £1461.60, factor in other costs, insurances, heating taxes and so on there's not much left out of £2000 per week. Expensive, hell yeah ! But at what cost to us as tax-payers if we continue to use the NHS as a residential service, I estimate our cost is approximately 3 times more, unless occupational therapists, nurses and doctors are paid at £8.16 an hour.
But on a more positive note, I totally appreciate the insight(s) from parents, especially the underlining theme that is "our kids are individuals", no time and circumstance can be duplicated, I've been on far too many training sessions where the nonsense spewed out by the "professionals" has galled me to say the least.
I just wanted to make a change, give a leg-up to those at times needed it [ that would be all of of us on occasion ] create a facility where parents could drop-in, not drive-by, where qualified local lads and lasses could get on with doing what they do best, not fearing intrusion from the office / corporate monkeys wholly interested in getting the latest Jaguar with personalised plates.
I've now lost this facility to the bankers and wankers of the world, never even had a person come through the door, fully certified and good to go. This message was only meant as a positive, for those families and individuals who need our help, I tried, process, politics and procedures beat me and my guy's, but I won't give up, there are personnel out there who actually care about doing the right thing, but it's a struggle for the one's who do.
Thanks for reading, I hope you got something out of it.
Jim