He's taking the piss!
He's doing this so that you'll get frustrated and hopefully decide "it's easier to do it myself"
TELL him you know what he's playing at and he needs to grow the Fuck up and stop being a passive aggressive, selfish, lazy twat!
I'm assuming he manages to do similarly "challenging" tasks at work no problem?
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Ask him very directly why he doesn't give a fuck about your efforts and your family's need for him to act like the grown ass adult he IS and cut this crap out.
It's been mentioned on other threads, though I haven't seen the thread referred to, but apparently one mner started every time her man pulled similar crap she did an "impression" of him, voicing his attitude/thoughts every time she had to do something because he couldn't be arsed to do it or do it properly, something like
"Fuck littleyellow, why should I put the shopping away properly/put the laundry away properly/put the kids armbands in a sensible place?! I'm the man she's the woman/wife/mother that should be her job! Such jobs are beneath my manly pride and her needs and our kids needs don't Fucking matter only mine do!"
Because with his actions - THAT is exactly what he's saying!
He thinks he shouldn't have to do such menial work at all, he's better than you and he thinks you're unreasonable for even thinking he should do such things.
You could make things very awkward for him and nobody would blame you. My ex tried this type of nonsense once for a month just after we married. I told him I wouldn't stand for it got a "yea yea whatever" type response, I stopped doing anything that benefitted him and I definitely stopped anything that could be described as a "favour" that included anything from fetching him a cuppa when I made myself one to his laundry to not taking phone messages for him. Within a week he'd run out of clothes, had got in trouble at work for not having clean uniform, had missed out on an event he was looking forward to because of the phone thing (I did tell the person to call back when he'd be home, they chose not to as it was inconvenient to them and the call was due to ex not doing something they should have done anyway). There was an almighty row and he "ran crying" to his mother! Thankfully his mother is great, read between the lines of his painting himself as a victim to understand what really happened, asked to speak to me and listened to my side, asked to be passed back to him and gave him an almighty bollocking for being a lazy selfish git! He apologised and didn't do it again.
But I have seen SO MANY family/friends put up with crap like this and umpteen threads on here of examples.
Why women tolerate it I don't really understand.
My dd has been putting shopping away competently since she was 11, doing her own laundry since about 12/13, I've several men in my friends/family who are/were single parents who manage to run their own households very well, having a dick doesn't render you incapable of washing laundry competently!
He's at it!
"Fucking hell, some people set the bar very low in their relationships." Very much so, sadly especially women.
"My other pet hate is the ‘I can’t cook’ gang, yes you can, can you read? Then follow a recipe/instructions;" while this is true generally I have at least one friend (female) who genuinely cannot cook, she has tried really hard over the years to learn but she's genuinely a liability! She can barely be trusted with a ready meal and microwave! Her parents are both excellent cooks her brother is a chef! But the last time she tried to cook from scratch she had to get a new kitchen! There's also I've found both from discussions on here and people of a certain age in real life who've "fallen through the cracks" on this skill, they were not taught to cook by parents, didn't have decent cookery lessons at school and so feel very out of their depth, they worry they don't know how the food should look while cooking and worry about food safety too. It's gradually improving but there's a certain demographic who've really been let down on this score.
Parents need to take responsibility for producing these incompetent adults, something else I also see a lot on mn is mothers (but I'm not excusing fathers, just it's mainly mothers posting) mollycoddling their kids and not expecting them to learn how to do chores, and it IS far more prevalent with boys. I've even seen posts where the poster has children of both sexes and they expect the girls to "help out" but not the boys.