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Lend me your eyes, DO YOU SEE IT?!!

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MrsA2015 · 28/08/2019 16:11

Last period date 24/07/19, took These today around 11ish. Tell me you see what I do!!

Lend me your eyes, DO YOU SEE IT?!!
Lend me your eyes, DO YOU SEE IT?!!
Lend me your eyes, DO YOU SEE IT?!!
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neveradullmoment99 · 30/08/2019 15:31

Please don't feel stupid about it. You definitely had a line and you definitely were pregnant. For some reason, it wasn't meant to be but it is so upsetting. That's the problem with early tests. I had a clear blue digital and it said pregnant 2-3wks. Then it said not pregnant. The hurt was immense but do not feel stupid.

NoSauce · 30/08/2019 15:33

This is why it’s unhelpful when people say stuff like “ I had a line like that and it’s 10 years old “ or whatever. I know they’re only trying to be supportive but it doesn’t help if things don’t turn out.

Tartan333 · 30/08/2019 15:34

I'm sorry to hear this Flowers The exact same thing happened to me. I carried on ttc ing and got pregnant with my now 3 year old dc straight away. There is hope and it shows that you are able to get pregnant. Look after yourself xx

MrsA2015 · 30/08/2019 15:39

I feel like a woman on a mission to have a positive outcome soon. I understand everything takes time , it did this time round but I’m even more determined now.

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rubyroot · 30/08/2019 15:47

@NoSauce ffs why do you need to go in and on. Op had a positive test so she knew she was pregnant so if a loss follows there's always going to be upset, grief and disappointment.
I've had multiple losses and always treat every pregnancy with caution. Still doesn't really reduce the heartache though I'm afraid. Please just wish op well.

rubyroot · 30/08/2019 15:48

@MrsA2015 I've worked really hard to get this pregnancy and so far everything is positive. I still have everything crossed. Good luck on your mission and in the meantime look after yourself. X

NoSauce · 30/08/2019 15:55

Who’s going on and on? Today I’ve wished the OP well and responded to your vile post calling people names. Hardly going on.

Roozy123 · 30/08/2019 16:24

No what's "unhelpful" is this constant bickering and jabs!!

People that said that were saying it to say... we can relate, by having a line that light and still being pregnant!!🙄 nothing more... nothing less. No-one knows how a pregnancy is doing to turn out once that test is positive. Just leave it fgs

Op, I'm so so sorry you're going through this. Do all you can to make yourself feel any better, hug your little one and it will happen- just right now is a shit time and you are far from stupid!!! Xxx

neveradullmoment99 · 30/08/2019 16:41

A few months later after having the same thing as you, I got my bfp and she is now 8! It will happen for you I'm sure. Good luck.

tuberr0se · 30/08/2019 16:58

Oh OP I'm so sorry. Sending virtual hug.

tuberr0se · 30/08/2019 17:00

If it helps, you are not alone. We women go through this and there is some comfort in solidarity.

Roozy123 · 30/08/2019 17:02

@tuberr0se very true. Flowers

JamieFrasersSassenach · 30/08/2019 17:09

I can see a very feint second line - mine were always like that - congratulations!!! ThanksThanks

JamieFrasersSassenach · 30/08/2019 17:12

So sorry - just seen your news ThanksThanksThanks

mogloveseggs · 30/08/2019 18:37
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simplekindoflife · 30/08/2019 19:36

So sorry OP ThanksThanksThanks

Mummyme87 · 30/08/2019 19:42

Definitely lines. Congratulations

Mummyme87 · 30/08/2019 19:43

Argh just saw your update OP. Sorry to read your news. Take care of yourself

EleanorReally · 30/08/2019 19:49

i would try and resist testing so soon another time op Flowers

Jemima232 · 30/08/2019 23:33

Very sorry to read your update OP.

Densol999 · 31/08/2019 07:58

Oh Im so sorry - You must be devastated
Look after yourself Flowers x

koffeetoast · 31/08/2019 08:58

Hi OP,

really sorry to hear this news. Fingers crossed you'll be back with your BFP soon and we will all be celebrating with you again. x

1z2o3e · 27/03/2020 09:02

Hi.can anyone else see a faint line or am I just wishful thinking.had a mmc in September and would have been due this week.my emotions are everywhere right now!!!

Lend me your eyes, DO YOU SEE IT?!!
Lend me your eyes, DO YOU SEE IT?!!
Lend me your eyes, DO YOU SEE IT?!!
Saisong · 27/03/2020 09:05

Yes there is definately a line there - congratulations!

It would have been better to start your own thread rather than bumping this one.

BanginChoons · 27/03/2020 09:06

@1z2o3e that is definitely a line. Congratulations.