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Lend me your eyes, DO YOU SEE IT?!!

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MrsA2015 · 28/08/2019 16:11

Last period date 24/07/19, took These today around 11ish. Tell me you see what I do!!

Lend me your eyes, DO YOU SEE IT?!!
Lend me your eyes, DO YOU SEE IT?!!
Lend me your eyes, DO YOU SEE IT?!!
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Bellatrix14 · 30/08/2019 07:39

@Tonnerre not having my glasses makes me struggle to see things that are there (primarily menus up on the wall behind counters, like in Starbucks Hmm) not imagine things that are, especially in the case of something that’s hard to see. So the fact that I can clearly see it without glasses is a positive thing. But nice try Wink

Congratulations OP!

Badabingbadabum · 30/08/2019 08:00

I've just cleaned up a bowl of rice krispies knocked over by a little girl who started as a line like that. Congratulations!

Densol999 · 30/08/2019 08:53

Excited if we are going to see an even more positive line today !
Thinking of you OP Flowers

MrsA2015 · 30/08/2019 13:57

sadly the joy was short lived, woke up this morning to bleeding that only got heavier with cramps. Had an internal and bloods to confirm whatever could’ve been isn’t there anymore. A number of reasons and theories as to why it’s happened the main one being a late ovulation and it just not sticking. Many many thanks to the lovely messages so far. Hopefully will be back with bfp next time

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NoSauce · 30/08/2019 14:00

I’m very sorry to read this OP. Flowers

Smotheroffive · 30/08/2019 14:02

Flowers. Really feel for you, what a let down.

Yes, keep positive, keep at it Wink

username67789 · 30/08/2019 14:04

So sorry OP Thanks

spanglydangly · 30/08/2019 14:14

Oh I'm sorry Thanks

PurpleDaisies · 30/08/2019 14:17
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KitKat1985 · 30/08/2019 14:24

Sorry OP. Flowers

MrsMozartMkII · 30/08/2019 14:30

I'm sorry lass.

KondoKonvert · 30/08/2019 14:43

So sorry to hear this. You must be gutted 😔

MrsA2015 · 30/08/2019 14:50

so sad and devastated. It took me a while to recover and want to be pregnant again, the first two ears with DD were excruciatingly difficult for me. I feel guilty everyday she’s lonely on her own and so badly wanted this for her too.

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Lweji · 30/08/2019 14:58

So sorry. Sad

But don't worry about DD. Single children can be happy too. And there are no guarantees that siblings will be friends, let alone best friends.

The good news is that you can get pregnant. And remember that it's very common to have an early loss.

www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/322634.php

"As many as 50 to 75 percent of pregnancies end before getting a positive result on a pregnancy test. Most women will never know they were pregnant, though some may suspect they were because of pregnancy loss symptoms."

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PurpleDaisies · 30/08/2019 15:01

The good news is that you can get pregnant

Please don’t say this to any one who has just experienced a loss. It’s not helpful.

OrangeSlices998 · 30/08/2019 15:03

Sending you much love OP. Flowers

Courtney555 · 30/08/2019 15:04

Sorry this happened to you. Sometimes it's mother nature knowing something's not quite right, so taking her natural course.

This wasn't your time. But this wasn't your only time. What's not meant to be now, paves the way for what's meant to be in the future.

Sending love and hope for whatever comes your way Flowers

Smotheroffive · 30/08/2019 15:07

Oh OP, its really common for parents to wait a couple of years, or more before having further dc, and so first borns are often only children for the early years, and theres lots to suggest they do extremely well as a result. A shame to spend all of this time worrying about your dd missing something. She really isn't. Flowers

rubyroot · 30/08/2019 15:13

@MrsA2015 Oh so sorry. Its so hard when you get your hopes up. I had a positive straight after my chemical with no period in between. I'm now almost 11 weeks and I have my fingers crossed for a successful pregnancy. Have a nice glass of wine or whatever sins float your boat, look after yourself and have cuddles with your little one. I have found my little boy really helped with pregnancy loss. Sending my love, time is a great healer--stay strong

MrsA2015 · 30/08/2019 15:13

It’s just so shit I don’t even want to cry I feel really stupid and annoyed. Hormones Sad

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RumpoleoftheBaileys · 30/08/2019 15:18

I'm so sorry.

You react however you need to react.

Take care sweetheart x

youarenotkiddingme · 30/08/2019 15:20

I'm so sorry Thanks cry, scream or punch a pillow - or whatever you need to do.

It's shit and there's no point trying to dress it up as anything else.

NoSauce · 30/08/2019 15:24

I’m sorry you got your hopes up. It takes time to come to terms with what’s happened, there’s no magic wand just time and taking care of yourself.

neveradullmoment99 · 30/08/2019 15:29

This happened to me. Its is utterly devastating. Flowers

Smotheroffive · 30/08/2019 15:30

There's nothing stupid about this. You get excited of course! Thats normal, certainly not stupid.

Take care and indulge yourself.