Me and OH have been together for 8 years and have a 4 year old DD with another on the way. My 4 year old still sleeps with me and OH sleeps in her room. We still had sex regularly and we were both happy with our sex life. Now that I am pregnant with our 2nd child things have changed as I have gone off sex. We have been having sex roughly every 2-3 weeks. He is now blaming me, saying its because of DD sharing the bed with me. Ive explained to him that its the pregnancy, i feel fat, bloated and tired. We have decided to to decorate DDs room this week as she starts school and needs a routine, also with the new baby due, i dont want her to feel pushed out so I am going to try and get her settled in her newly decorated room.
I do understand where he is coming from but feel that DD sleeping with me wasnt an issue before and he admitted that we had a great sex life before I was pregnant ( we would have sex downstairs mostly, when DD was asleep or we would put her in her in her own room) . He is making me feel guilty for not wanting sex