To lay in bed doing precisely zero while dh is triathlon training?

[Ligresa]

He's cycled about 30k and is currently at Parkrun. Dd3 has just bought me a second cup of coffee and I'm laying in bed on my phone.

I'm beginning to feel a bit lazy if I'm honest.

Good for you! Enjoy it, I'm sure there's plenty of times you're rushed off your feet and don't have a second to chill out.

Why would that be remotely unreasonable? Totally fine unless you need to be somewhere!

Have a lovely day in bed, OP!

It’s the weekend and lm sure you have a busy week. Enjoy! No one is making him do triathlon training.

Enjoy it while you can, I’m still in bed while dh is out working overtime!

Everyone needs some lazy time, enjoy it while it lasts.

100% say YANBU

Whats unreasonable? He's soley focusing on himself, you're soley focusing on yourself.

It's obviously essential for you to continue to provide balance for the universe.

Please continue this vital role.

YABU to say 'lay' when you mean 'lie'. You are lying in bed. Unless you are laying an egg while you're there.

Exactly @RedForShort
It would be different if he was up doing DIY!

Personally I would stay there until I was feeling extremely lazy.

bridgetreilly I don't usually like posters correcting other posters spelling or grammar, but that did make me laugh - the idea of OP laying an egg

OP - of course YANBU. I love a lie in, and dh is one for getting up at dawn to go off and do his hobby. Only thing here is, why aren't you still asleep so early on a Saturday.

Thank you. I actually got up and went to a very long, very relaxing yoga class. Doing my bit for the balance of the universe 🙏