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Ban in laws from my house

27 replies

MG08 · 19/08/2019 19:31

There is a massive background to this but very basically I have fallen out with my in laws due to how they have treated me in the past and I have chosen not to see them anymore. They turned up at our house and my MIL told me to shut up and said that she never wanted to see me again.

We are due to go on holiday soon and my parents are also going away at the same time. We have pets that will need looking after. I want to pay to have someone come round and feed them etc as I am not comfortable having my in laws in my home anymore. I think my husband will kick off about this and just want to know if I am being reasonable?

OP posts:
NoShit2019 · 28/07/2026 22:38

My husband and mother have fallen out as my husband man handled me after I gave birth.
My mother swore and verbally abused his dad and him and took me home.

three months later my husband refusing to allow my parents to come to the house to see me.

he won’t listen to me and refused to see this logic y

LakieLady · 29/07/2026 07:37

Drum2018 · 19/08/2019 20:33

Ask a neighbour. In your circumstances I wouldn't want them in my house, especially while I was away. Once you find someone to help then tell dh it's sorted. I assume they don't have a key to your house.

This.

I feed neighbours' cats etc when they're away, and when my NDN went somewhere that she couldn't take her dog, he came and stayed with me for 3 days.

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