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Homealonealways · 18/08/2019 03:34

DH travels ALOT with work. Not quite FIFO but not far off it. I get really, really lonely. Have a job, good circle of friends but no family - all these things are wonderful but not the same as being with your husband. DH has suggested me 'dating' if I'm lonely as long as I'm honest with him about it. I was devastated he would suggest such I thing. Was too embarrassed to tell anyone in real life, until I had one too many rose's yesterday and blurted it out to my best mate. Her immediate response was well clearly that's what he's doing then ....... he is working away this weekend and now I can't sleep for thinking about what the hell he is doing ........ Does he genuinely want me to date other men or just get a pass for himself?!

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whattodowith · 19/08/2019 17:09

Strange suggestion. I wouldn’t leap into believing he is cheating but it sounds like it’s impossible to tell if he is or isn’t really...

I couldn’t cope with a marriage like this. You see each other for half of the year and he’s barely contactable while away. Plus you moved countries to be with him and for what? No wonder you are feeling lonely.

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