I’m moaning: DMIL has lots of health worries. She recently had concerns and scans and things which worried her much more than normal people. She got the all clear but this has tipped her over into anxiety and depression. DH asked her the other day if she wanted him to visit at the weekend. She said “no” so we said to our friends go ahead and come down for the weekend. I’ve just now seen a text pop up on his phone saying that she would like a visit as “Dad is out of his mind with worry and could do with some support”.
😒No one in that family will ever say “oh, she’ll be alright (as most of us are)”. She never says , “oh, it’ll be ok”. Everyone is always out of their mind with worry and this time, I want him to tell her that we’ve already gone and made other plans.
AIBU?