Bit of a back story. I'm ex forces....as is a man called Burt*. Burt used to play for a rugby team I followed and supported whilst serving in Scotland. Not that it really matters, but back then Burt and I were single and good friends. Literally just friends, nothing romantic ever happened, neither of us interested in that way. Anyway, when I left my posting in 2007 ish Burt gave me a necklace with a rugby ball charm. It was a goodbye/good luck type gift. I used to wear it. But I've just been sorting through my jewellery and I found it. Unloved and gathering dust with the rest of my pandora/cosmetic monstrosities!!!
Should I send the necklace back to Burt? He still loves rugby and I think he may still wear it. Would he be offended? Would his now wife be suspicious etc?? We are both now married and are no longer in touch except via facebook, but rarely.
It is real gold and I think it's a shame that it's not being used. It is no longer really my style.
Would it be unreasonable to ask for his address to send it back??
*Burt not real name. 😊👍