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Wedding pictures posted....

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Piersorgan · 15/08/2019 21:08

My DH's (female) friends posted pictures last year of our first wedding anniversary. No pic of me included.

This year, I've come off Facebook, (because of them)and they've posted a more representative batch of photos, a couple which included me. No where has my DH referred to our anniversary but just generic comments about the friends. AIBU?

OP posts:
crustycrab · 15/08/2019 21:10

What's your AIBU?

Digitalash · 15/08/2019 21:14

I don't get it sorry, are you upset your DH forgot your anniversary? Or upset some other people have posted pics? Or upset because of whose posted pics? (Not sure why someone else would post anniversary pics of someone else's anniversary though)

B3ck89 · 15/08/2019 21:14

Either I’m tired, or that’s really confusing Confused

FifteenYemenRoadYemen · 15/08/2019 21:33

If you're off Facebook, apparently because of them, then how do you know what they're posting and why are you making it your concern? No one is posting for your benefit.

BumbleBeee69 · 15/08/2019 21:39

So she posted your Wedding photos, but none of you the actual BRIDE Hmm

and she's your DH's 'friend' Hmm

She's a nasty bitch OP, and your DH is a spineless Dick for not calling her out on it. Flowers

Pancakeflipper · 15/08/2019 21:39

Are you peeved at your DH or his friends this year?

LIZS · 15/08/2019 21:43

Was it to mark your anniversary or just as a gathering of friends/colleagues which happened to be at your celebration. Tbh an anniversary is really just between the couple. Has he marked it with you?

DaphneFanshaw · 15/08/2019 21:43

Sorry, I am not sure what the AIBU is either.
Can we have a bit more information please op?

SexFarmWoman · 15/08/2019 21:44

Yes.

I mean no.

I'm not sure.

ChicCroissant · 15/08/2019 21:47

So you've come off FB but are still monitoring it closely? Why? And what is the AIBU here?

MamaOfBothTeams · 15/08/2019 21:53

So they posted a picture of them at your wedding to say happy anniversary?

But your not on Facebook because of them but are still looking at their Facebook?

PancakeAndKeith · 15/08/2019 21:55

I don’t understand the problem.

arethereanyleftatall · 15/08/2019 21:56

Op, your post is unclear I'm afraid. No one appears to have done anything wrong from what you've written.

arethereanyleftatall · 15/08/2019 22:01

Your post has made me check something. The photos I uploaded on fb from a wedding I went to a few months back have no photos of the bride; just of me and all my friends including the groom at the wedding. It has literally never occurred to me that that's a faux pax. I'm not friends with the bride (although she's perfectly pleasant).

MrFartPants · 15/08/2019 22:05

You're not being unreasonable...you're being stupid.

LorelaiRoryEmily · 15/08/2019 22:08

What’s the question?

GoGoGoGoGo · 15/08/2019 22:12

Eh?

Boom45 · 15/08/2019 22:16

Not sure what you're asking exactly but are you annoyed that they posted some pictures of their friends at your wedding but didn't post any of you? If they're a group of friends that don't get together very often and it's good photos of them their mates then it doesn't sound that bad. And, if you're not on Facebook they probably didn't do it to annoy you if that's what's worrying you.

PianoTuner567 · 15/08/2019 22:17

I get it!

On their first wedding anniversary, the female friends posted pictures about it but none included the OP, the bride/wife.

It’s now their second anniversary, and they’ve posted some pics that this time include the OP, big he’d DH has liked/commented on them but not referenced the fact it’s an anniversary.

Is that it?

PianoTuner567 · 15/08/2019 22:19

*and her

DianaT1969 · 15/08/2019 22:24

Did you have a party for your 1st anniversary? They were there, took photos and posted them. Is that it? But none were posted of you.
Otherwise, how did she have photos of you on your 1st anniversary?
You think she doesn't like you and/or she might be interested in your husband?
Either way, stop caring about what she does and keep your distance. Don't have a party for your 3rd anniversary. Job done.

NotStayingIn · 15/08/2019 22:33

To answer what I think your AIBU is: why would your DH mention your wedding anniversary when commenting on photos posted on the anniversary of your wedding? As in, it's flipping obvious it's your wedding anniversary, hence the photos have been posted. I don't get what you are annoyed about?

(Also are you sure they aren't using TimeHop? Seems a bit unlikely that two anniversaries in a row they post pictures from your wedding.)

NotStayingIn · 15/08/2019 22:38

Diana - As I understand it, two years in a row, on the anniversary of OP's wedding, these friends have posted pictures taken at the wedding. I think?

Which to me seems a bit unlikely but who knows. I was leaning towards thinking its one of the automatically generated Timehops.

DianaT1969 · 15/08/2019 22:41

Ah, thanks. I didn't get that. It seems such a strange think to do - to remember someone else's anniversary and post photos. Probably FB throwing up the 'memory' to their feed and they mindlessly share it without noticing, or caring that the bride isn't included.

PancakeAndKeith · 15/08/2019 22:42

Do people care about other people’s wedding anniversaries?

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