Wedding pictures posted....

[Piersorgan]

My DH's (female) friends posted pictures last year of our first wedding anniversary. No pic of me included.

This year, I've come off Facebook, (because of them)and they've posted a more representative batch of photos, a couple which included me. No where has my DH referred to our anniversary but just generic comments about the friends. AIBU?

Yeah so if they are his friends then im not surprised that you arent in the photos.

I wouldnt post photos of another couple on their wedding day as i feel thats for them to do. Equally id be taking pictures that interest me which is much more likely to be just photos of my side of the family/bridal party

Thinking about it my pictures from when i was a bridesmaid, i think may be 1 in 30 includes the groom. Its all the bridal party larking around

I feel like this is going to be a massive drip feed where they treat you badly and its nothing to do with facebook

Why does any of this matter to you OP?

If my husband was pissed off he wasn't in photos my friends posted, I'd think he'd lost the plot.

If he was pissed off I hadn't mentioned our anniversary on a photo thread, I'd think he'd gone batshit crazy.

It's a bit 'off' of them not to invite you to things but they're allowed to not be keen on you and it seems like the feeling's mutual anyway.

I'm not keen on all of my friend's partners, so it would be odd to invite them to things as well.

Seriously? You left Facebook for obviously good reasons. So leave it. Stop obsessing. It really doesn't matter anyway.

I'm not keen on all of my friend's partners, so it would be odd to invite them to things as well.

So, married couples - you wouldn't invite both of them to bbqs, parties or on holiday, you'd just invite one??

Are you seriously annoyed because your DH didn't mention your anniversary on fb? And you're not even on fb!

Grow up ffs.

So, married couples - you wouldn't invite both of them to bbqs, parties or on holiday, you'd just invite one??

Yeahh of course?? You never do anything with your friends without their spouses? Things like BBQs and parties and holidays?

Sorry OP but I don't see any poor behavior. Not strange to reminisce about your friend's wedding and the good time you and friends had there. It's not obligatory to find and post a photo of their wife/husband as well.

Also, overreaction to expect your DH to post on FB about your anniversary.

I went to a friends wedding a few years ago and took a picture of myself and him. We are friends, although I like his DH, the reason I was invited was because of him. On FB I put a picture of me and him and than after a year (Time /laziness/ and not wanting to put pictures up until I was sure it would be ok to do so) put more pictures up on their anniversary.
If my DH had voiced your queries I would thing he was controlling and crazy, if my friends DH and said the same to him, I would think she was too. Thats why I think you should stop this ridiculous behaviour. They are his friends not yours, why should they like you the same.
I am sure if you check your friends FB they will be acting the same with you, do you come off FB about the 'unfairness' your DH is facing?
Frankly you sound crazy.

Why is your husband still friends with them?. Because he's allowed to have friends??

there was a pattern of exclusion from these two friends.