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should i post a photo of this man online?

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rabbitwoman · 15/08/2019 11:56

Oh my goodness, why are people so rude and horrible in supermarkets?

I was trying to get out of the way of a really big guy in the supermarket but was not quite quick enough so he actually RAMMED my trolley out of the way!!! I had to run after it but as i did so said over my shoulder 'actually, i was trying to get out of the way for you but never mind!' and as i walked off he actually rammed his trolley into ME!!!!

i took a deep breath. What shall i do? I walked on, continued my shopping. You know what? there were a lot of friendly people in there all smiling at each other and being polite - i had a toy dinosaur in my trolley for my nephew and a lady said, 'oh, i like your friend!' and i decided to get over it and walked round the corner still smiling and this horrible man and his wife walked assed me and i actually heard her say to him '..... don't you hate the way she was smiling at us!' WTAF - like i can't be cheerful now?!!!!

i had to double back though and, well, my trolley may have poked out into the else a bit and guess what!!!???? He smashed into it again!!! I turned round and said very loudly 'oh gosh, i am sorry, was my trolley in the way?!! All you had to do was say excuse me!!!'

he leant right over me (he was over a foot taller than i am) and mouthed 'fuck off, fuck off, fuck off' - sheesh!!!! Luckily, two other people were there and looked as incredulous as i as he walked off.

What to do? I was shaking, but took a deep breath. I picked u a bottle of prossecco. But then, there they were agin. So i took out y phone and took a picture - i made sure he saw me do it!

shall i post it on Facebook? Although, i think what i will do is post a picture of my lovely toy dinosaur and say thank you to the nice lady who cheered me up instead.......

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yikesanddang · 15/08/2019 15:21

Seriously, You must contact the store. They will have CCTV and if what happened is what you state, then the police will be contacted. He acted in an agressive way and he actually asssaulted you. He may do worse to the next person. This is not just a case of someone having a bad day, This is a dangerous person.

sweeneytoddsrazor · 15/08/2019 15:23

You would need to contact the police first not the store. If the police want cctv evidence they will contact the store.

Wellmet · 15/08/2019 15:26

Where do you all live that the police would investigate someone ramming a trolley? They don't come out for open drug deals here, they're run off their feet!

sweeneytoddsrazor · 15/08/2019 15:33

They wouldn't investigate it where I am @Wellmet.

Grumpelstilskin · 15/08/2019 15:57

The store might have footage of him. I would contact them and message the image, time and be telling them he was physically and verbally abusive in their store. And while I generally don't like naming and shaming on social media, I would actually give a brief summary of him ramming and hurting you and post his picture. He may have form for a lot of aggressive similar behaviour.

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