Baby fucking mama!

[patrickstarismyspiritanimal]

My ex-dp and I never married, we didn't want to. We were together for 20 years and had 3 planned and wonderful kids.

He's got a new girlfriend who has recently had his baby. She's now calling me baby mama like I'm a one night stand and herself the mother of his child.

I don't speak to the girl, I actually have a restraining order against her but she's saying these things in front of my kids and my ex-ils.

She's very jealous of me, at one point she was stalking me and doing all kind of weird things. She knows I use this so she's probably on here searching for my old threads!

Would I bu to shover her in the bin where she belongs?

OP has been the subject of significant domestic abuse from her ex partner resulting in a prison sentence and subsequently abuse from his partner, resulting in a restraining order. I'm sure she can decide what triggers her.

@DontBeOffensive
I have been diagnosed with ptsd. I was on antidepressants and zopiclone to help me sleep. I couldn't sleep due to the nightmares I have.

I went down to 6st and my hair fell out due to this man. So yes, I do get triggered a lot.

I said high school because that's what my children's school has at the end of it's name.

I don't want him near my kids, I don't want her near my kids either but I have to follow what the courts say if I like it or not.

@PixieLumos
I came on here just got a rant, I don't want my kids to see me angry or upset because they've had a lifetime of that.

I've posted numerous times under different names. I wanted a rant that's all about the current situation. I feel down enough as it is without you having ago too

My high school was called the name followed by high school so it's actually not that strange...

Also after what you've been through.. rant away

But the OP used the term "high school" which is also American so maybe she actually is in America where "baby mama" would be a bit more offensive?
Many schools have now added or changed their name to High School. Heads seem to think it gives them more kudos. It has long been the normal term in Scotland.

you both sound as bad as eachother tbh

and

You both seem a bit unhinged tbh

Am I reading the same thread?

The only unhinged one is the stalker with the criminal record and a restraining order against her!

Were only getting one side of the story...

@JoanMavisIcecreamGirl

Well, yes. As we do on every single other thread on Mumsnet. What do you want or expect?

Yeah, let’s hear it from the woman with a criminal record and a restraining order against her

True but its a line that always gets rattled out when the thread is written by the gf about the ex wife.

Oh well, @JoanMavisIcecreamGirl it sounds as if anonymous Internet forums aren't your bag then. Perhaps go and read some Court Judgements instead? Then at least you will have the benefit of hearing what all parties have had to say

I've never met her, never even spoken to her. I have settled with a new partner who is a childhood friend and I'm very happy and very much loved.

I had no issues with her until she started being crazy, I reported everything to the police and didn't react thanks to the advice of friends, social worker and idva.

Funny how its allowed on other threads though eh.

@JoanMavisIcecreamGirl I get where you're coming from, you've only read from my point of view. God knows what hers is or what he's doing to her.

She's more than likely getting the same treatment I did and just blaming me?

“Yeah it’s cringe but it’s just slang, it isn’t even a derogatory term it just means you’re the mother of his children, which you obviously are”

It’s derogatory in S London, where it seems to have opinionated from Jamaican slang. Men use it to mean “Someone I casually shagged who inconveniently got pregnant”.

Also BMD - baby mama drama

I’m sure I’m not saying anything new OP, but try to rise above it and put your DC’s best interests first.