Not said directly to me, but I heard the conversation via speakerphone, he told anyone who would listen that I was blackmailing him for all he had and it was only once I'd taken all his money, that I told his new gf that he'd fathered a child behind her back. Nope, I told his gf at the request of his teenage child who was terrified of him but felt the gf needed to know of other things going on and That same teenager had had to keep her sibling's existence a secret for 4 years and had had enough.
Also with regards to the money, he spent £80 on my child twice in eight years, plus bought one outfit when they were born. He was self-employed but had business in his mum's name and so through CSA I received the whopping sum of £2.50 per week for around 2 years. But I was fleecing him and only cared about money.
Then there was the 'dc isn't mine', despite the fact my poor DC was his spitting image (grown out of it now fortunately). He also told everyone I was refusing a DNA test, so I arranged one. Funnily enough he didn't show. The best part was he came round to see DC, spotted their new school photo and asked me why I had a picture of X. X being his older child from a previous relationship whom my DC is the image of. He didn't know where to look when I pointed that out adding "but DC isn't yours though are they?"
He also beat me up cracking my ribs because I had no "right to question him" on where the money from the remortgage had gone, considering we had work booked on the house, a newborn and bills to pay. He'd spent it on a new car and his new gf.
Then when I made sure I got that money back when we sold the house, he'd had a lien put on it from an outstanding CCJ from
Before we bought the house. He phoned me the day we completed screaming at me to give him his money back as if "wasn't fair" I had ended up with so much more than him and I should be paying half of his debt which he'd had from before we were even together.
Dick. Can't say I'm sorry he's dead.