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To serve family a lasagne that had a dead wasp in it?

187 replies

Scarlett555 · 09/08/2019 13:02

Spent all morning making a delicious ragu sauce for a lasagne in preparation for my brother and his family who are visiting this weekend.

It had been simmering away nicely for over an hour. Went to give it a stir and discovered a dead wasp in the sauce Shock. I have no idea how the fucker got in there.

The ingredients were expensive. I made enough to serve 9 people.

Do I need to throw it away and start again? Or WIBU to serve it anyway? (minus the wasp obviously)

OP posts:
Namechangeymcnamechange11 · 09/08/2019 13:03

As long as the wasp is intact, YANBU.

BradTomby · 09/08/2019 13:04

Hoik the wasp out, give it a good stir and say nowt.

AuntieDolly · 09/08/2019 13:04

I'd eat it (the lasagne, not the wasp!)

TerracottaLeggy · 09/08/2019 13:05

Yuck. No, I wouldn't serve it. That's disgusting.

bengalcat · 09/08/2019 13:05

Of course - minus wasp of course

HouseholdPlantMurderer · 09/08/2019 13:06

Why would you throw away 9 portions for 1 dead wasp? Unless there is an allergy in play, it's ridiculousWink

TwistyTop · 09/08/2019 13:06

The wasp will add flavour, it's fine

ODFOx · 09/08/2019 13:06

Would you serve them a fresh fig?
If the answer is yes then serve the ragu.

paap1975 · 09/08/2019 13:07

What is disgusting about a wasp? What diseases is it supposed to be carrying? Go ahead and serve it up

MyFokMarelize · 09/08/2019 13:07

Why is it disgusting? Wasps are not shit-eaters. I'd just fish the poor dead wasp out and carry on regardless.

MammaMia19 · 09/08/2019 13:07

Yeah I’d scoop it out, bring it to boil again for a second then forget about it.

GooodMythicalMorning · 09/08/2019 13:07

as long as its whole and intact yes I'd serve it.

TeddybearBaby · 09/08/2019 13:08

If it was a fly I’d bin it but I think I’d be able to cope with a wasp!

Coffeeandcherrypie · 09/08/2019 13:08

YANBU. We’ll all be eating insects for protein in50 years do a dead wasp is nothing.

TerracottaLeggy · 09/08/2019 13:08

And serve it to people without telling them?

Scarlett555 · 09/08/2019 13:08

Oh gawd I think it was intact. Hopefully no stray wings in there. Yuk yuk yuk. I don't think I will be able to eat any will that seem suspicious?

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WTF0ver · 09/08/2019 13:09

It might give them a buzz.

ItWentInMyEye · 09/08/2019 13:09

I'd worry about allergies

RedTrek · 09/08/2019 13:09

Just take it out. Nobody will ever know and I strongly doubt it would have any negative effect even if you did just eat the wasp.

loobyloo1234 · 09/08/2019 13:09

YANBU - as long as you fished it out whole. It must've been tasty for it to find it's way into the sauce Grin

MereDintofPandiculation · 09/08/2019 13:10

It's cooked. Keep it piping hot for another 10 mins to be on the safe side. Don't tell the recipients.

On the other, remember that if you need to make sure that there are at least a couple of slices of chocolate cake left over, casually mentioning that you removed a dead fly before serving will usually do the trick.

Vasya · 09/08/2019 13:10

I would still eat it (and I'm vegetarian). No point in being too precious about it. The heat will cook out any germs.

Scarlett555 · 09/08/2019 13:10

It might give them a buzz lol!

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PixieLumos · 09/08/2019 13:10

I’d still eat it.

IAskTooManyQuestions · 09/08/2019 13:11

Eat it!

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