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To buy a birthday cake when it's not my birthday...

103 replies

MissRabbitNeedsAHoliday · 04/08/2019 14:49

Or anyone else in the houses birthday!
I just really want cake, and for some reason only birthday cake is appealing to me at the moment. I'm not even pregnant so can't use cravings as an excuse. Tell me wise mumsnetters is it totally weird to buy birthday cake when it's not for a birthday? 😂

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FurrySlipperBoots · 04/08/2019 15:35

Do you have children? Maybe it's a special teddy/dolls birthday today? You could totally turn that into a whole afternoon activity having them make bunting for decorations, whip up some easy 'party food' together like cheese straws and 'traffic lights' (cocktail stick with a cherry tomato, carrot slice and piece of green pepper on), get dressed up (in old, nearly-grown-out-of fancy clothes) and even play party games. Have the party tea be a picnic on a blanket in the living room and bring out the cake at the end.

UniversalAunt · 04/08/2019 15:36

4th August - Let Them Eat Birthday Cake day.

Sounds goods to me.
Think what it will do for the baking industry.

SpoonBlender · 04/08/2019 15:38

Adulthood begins when you realise you can JUST GO BUY AND EAT A CAKE.

idhavenoluckifitwasntforbadluc · 04/08/2019 15:38

Sure. Tesco's do a lovely wee one for £6 (price may have increased). I regularly bought one during my pregnancy 😳🙈

Purplecatshopaholic · 04/08/2019 15:44

This is why I love being an adult. If I want cake, I buy one and eat it.... good times

Durgasarrow · 04/08/2019 15:44

brilliant idea

Singleandproud · 04/08/2019 15:45

Do you have any small children at home? We once had a full on birthday party for one of DDs build a bear toys, we were having a bbq anyway but we got a cake and dressed the toys up in their best clothes then DD carried the bear to the cake and blew out the candles whilst we sang happy birthday.

Sunflowers11 · 04/08/2019 15:46

I am guilty of buying a reduced Birthday Cake once, and I have no shame 😊

huuskymam · 04/08/2019 15:46

You might as well. I would regu buy a Tesco party tray chocolate cake for no particu reason.

Singleandproud · 04/08/2019 15:47

Haha cross post, glad we aren’t the only ones who celebrate inanimate objects imaginary birthdays as an excuse to eat cake.

misscockerspaniel · 04/08/2019 15:51

Are you lighting candles Grin

MrsMS · 04/08/2019 15:52

I have done just this, a few times actually! I thought I was the only crazy one 🤣 Cake is my weakness and sometimes I just really really fancy a bit of b’day variety Cake

Bluetrews25 · 04/08/2019 15:53

Made blueberry muffins earlier, but the thought of ICED cake......oh yeah, drool.....

FrangipaniBlue · 04/08/2019 15:58

Go for it!

I sometimes make a cake or a batch of cupcakes or some cake pops "just because" Grin

Catsandchardonnay · 04/08/2019 16:04

It would be rude not to celebrate Dangerfloof’s DC’s dumptruck toy’s birthday, I’m sure it’s today!

ZuzuMyLittleGingersnap · 04/08/2019 16:05

It's apparently Obama's birthday today, too.

You would thus be celebrating the memory of when sanity prevailed in US-UK politics.

It is your diplomatic duty to eat as much cake as you can possibly manage.
Blame sodding Trump. Grin

Reallybadidea · 04/08/2019 16:06

I think YABU because homemade cake is (almost) always nicer than bought.

ravenmum · 04/08/2019 16:07

Only if there are several birthday cakes on sale and you are not going to disappoint some very disorganised person who has just rushed in to get one last minute!

WindsweptEgret · 04/08/2019 16:08

I don't understand. There is a difference between cake and birthday cake? Isn't birthday cake either just cake sold with a birthday message on it, or cake bought for a birthday?

Shockers · 04/08/2019 16:08

It’s three years since I bought my bike, according to fb memories. That is a cake worthy event- it’s a great bike. 🎂

IWouldLikeToSeeTheseMangoes · 04/08/2019 16:09

Absolutely not unreasonable! You are only unreasonable in that you have now made me want birthday cake immediately also.

Bwekfusth · 04/08/2019 16:15

OH works at Tesco and one of the few perks is the free stuff, he often comes home with bags of perfectly good stuff on its last day of shelf life and we rarely pay for bread etc, but once he came home with a large rainbow coloured birthday cake covered in sprinkles and all that jazz. It made my year. Get the cake. Do it.

Orangecake123 · 04/08/2019 16:16

Go for it OP.

I'm going to buy a small carrot cake the moment I get back home!

ElizabethMountbatten · 04/08/2019 16:17

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Seeingadistance · 04/08/2019 16:17

Are you lighting candles?

Has to be done!