My 8 year old son has his best mate over for a sleepover tonight. He's waited three years for best mate to turn 8 as that was the age set by his parents for sleepovers. Fair enough. Both super excited, counting down the days, hours, minutes until said sleepover.
My OH goes to pick best mate up, his mother hands over bag etc before casually mentioning that best mate has threadworms, but don't worry because they are really common and he's been treated for them. OH bit flustered, doesn't know anything about threadworms as none of us have ever had them so doesn't object and brings best mate home.
We have since looked up threadworms and they are a horror story, really itchy anus at night, increased bedwetting (apparently he has wet the bed twice this week) and highly contagious with eggs that can live outside the body for 2 weeks!
Clearly best mate and son have been playing together all day, and best mate has touched a lot of his toys and stuff. Since reading we have watched him like hawks and only caught him scratching his bottom once, and have insisted on hand washing immediately and before all meals etc.
The thing that really gets my goat though is that I am currently breastfeeding an 8 month old. Having read and spoken to a pharmacist we have decided to treat our son and OH for them anyway (NHS website says treat all in household even if not symptomatic, and he is now in our household...) but myself and 8 month old cannot take the medication so if we catch them it could be horrendous itchiness for a couple of weeks until hygiene sorts the blighters out. We also have to vacuum and damp dust the entire house plus wash several loads of soft toys that they have been playing with. He has also brought his own soft toys into the house which are likely riddled with eggs!
AIBU or should best mate's mother have called off the sleepover to protect in particular our 8 month old from potential infection? If it was the other way round our son would most definitely have been kept at home. They would have been terribly disappointed but sleepover could have been rearranged for another weekend very easily. Fuming is an understatement. Plus wish we'd known a bit more about threadworms before picking him up....