Are you still interested in sex

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Just having a jokey conversation withy partner . I say " he should appreciate the fact that I'm still interested in loveaking at the age of 54 as far as I'm aware there are alot of women and men who go off it at our age . Just for transparency I have had a beer or two. 😂

No. 38.
Children are 1.5 and 3.5. Maybe things will change when they sleep and I'm not breastfeeding? 🤷‍♀️

I averaged about three times a year with my husband - not nearly enough for me, and all I had ever experienced. His libido was much lower than mine (Or I just wasn't the right person for him).

At 42, I am now 15 months into a new relationship, having sex 2-3 times a day and loving it...,, long may it last I hope - I do worry sometimes I won't keep up, but it is fab feeling so desired and he knows how to pleasure me big time!

Miss it terribly a decade without. OH had a turps op. which went wrong post op. so no more sex. It does change the relationship, no more kissing cuddling or touching from him. It has caused a great sadness for me.

No. Lost all interest in that when I got pregnant 5 years ago. 37 now and would happily never do it again.

@BraveGoldie Jesus Christ..... high five to you 🖐. I'm 43 and feel live I've totally lost my sparkle 😞

I'm 41 and still need and want it. My hubby is 49 and always up for it too x

45 and I think the older I get the more I desire.
Partners 46 and he is always up for it so alls good.

I am 46 and still very up for it, and far more confident in bed now I am older so the sex is so much better than it was 20 years ago.

50 and perimenapausal-after a few years of drifting into only a couple of times a month DH and I started counselling, having dates and then came the sex-now probably 5/6x week-would have more probably but kids often in the way!

Age 51. After 20 years plus with the same person- I can take it or leave it and I’m male.

I’m 30.

Would be happy never having it again.

I'm 36, haven't done it in over 5 years and really wouldn't be that bothered if I never did again! Luckily I'm single, although the last couple of years I was married I really wasn't that into it either (which ex wasn't happy about, but there's nothing unsexier than being pestered all the time..)

44, not interested and have always found it extremely overrated. Wouldn’t care if I never had it again.

I had no sex drive at all in my 20s and it was a constant issue in my previous marriage. Since I hit my 30s I've been rampant! Been with DH 4 years and want it all the time. He's younger than e and he can't keep up! Long term partner before him I was the same.

@PleaseGoogleIt we’re twins
I had the implant a couple weeks ago and I think it’s broken me.
I have 2 under 2 but would at least think about sex a lot, now I forget it exists

38 and absolutely gagging for it. Unfortunately DH is a lot less keen. We've always been a bit mismatched but my libido has steadily increased over the past decade while his has gradually decreased.

64 - Ruby WA in September and still regularly DTD!

Smug or what?

37 and very happy never to do it ever again.

To all those who are pregnant/breastfeeding/sleep deprived with young DC . . . hang on in there! Your mojo might return when children don’t paw you, suck on your nipples and keep you up all night.
42 and very interested following a ‘sabbatical’ of a few years.

I’d have sex every day. Other half not quite so keen.
I’m 40

Very interested at 36, as is boyf who is 31

How do these people have time for sex 2/3 times a day, you must have nothing else to do all day?! (I’m just jealous). I’m 35 and still loving it when we actually manage to do it, it’s just finding time to. I have a 3 year old and a 2 year old who generally don’t sleep, so finding a window where they are asleep and we aren’t is near impossible.

51 hitting menopause and would happily never have sex again, up until my late 40’s had a healthy sex drive but now it has literally like a switch has been turned off, honestly even if Brad Pitt was begging to ravish me it would be a case of sorry Brad you’re going to have to sort yourself out.

I though that its all going don’t these people have jobs, homes to run, kids to look after? All power to them but really where do they find the time!