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Is there a woman alive who still uses the word 'Panties' ?

159 replies

MILlovesBegonias · 31/07/2019 20:51

& I'm not talking about for little kids. I HATE this word. I confess I'm biased as I had some unfortunate incidents as a kid but really? Panties, it's SO old-fashioned. Yet I saw the word used in signage in Victoria's Secret today. It just gets under my skin. Knickers, pants, kecks, grundies, ANYTHING but panties.... bleurgh...

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lidoshuffle · 31/07/2019 22:56

Barry White, the Walrus of Lurve, rumbling on about 'baby blue panties' at 40 secs (sex?) in:

Ringsender2 · 31/07/2019 23:02
Envy
Babdoc · 31/07/2019 23:07

I can’t stand the word, it makes me cringe. In fact, I loathe it so much that the DC were banned from uttering it - it was referred to as “the P word” in our house! I had no problem with any other term for underwear - the DC could refer to them as knickers, pants, kecks, trollies, briefs, undies, whatever. But not the P word!

chubbysquid · 31/07/2019 23:14

My MIL!!! She taught my four year old.
It's one of the only times I've put my foot down with her, and told her under no circumstance was she to use the word panties in front of my daughter.

I not only hate the word, but it also conjures up seedy images,
Yuck yuck yuck

YourSarcasmIsDripping · 31/07/2019 23:16

I do. Deal with it.

StoneofDestiny · 31/07/2019 23:19

It's American. It's pants 😂

DemiGorgon · 31/07/2019 23:24

A Brit friend of mine lives in US and is a nurse in a gynae ward.
She cringes to say 'panties' and now just uses 'underwear'

It is a word that sounds too babyfied and sexual, so makes me cringe

ScratchyMap · 31/07/2019 23:26

It makes my skin crawl. If I hear it, I can feel myself shrivelling up like a salted slug.

bingbongnoise · 31/07/2019 23:27

'PANTIES' sounds like something someone would say in a porn film. Grin

So I have heard. I have never seen one! Blush

WorraLiberty · 31/07/2019 23:28

If my husband ever asked me to remove my 'panties', I think my vagina would shrivel up and my womb would fall out instantly.

IncrediblySadToo · 31/07/2019 23:33

My Aunty does (but she’s 90 this year) I do cringe a bit when she says it to her great granddaughters

There’s definitely something ‘soft porn’ about it in the UK, but it’s mad as it’s no different to knickers really 🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t mind a bloke I’m having sex with calling them panties at appropriate moments. Except I’d probably be booking in a spec savers visit for him as they’re more reminiscent of Apple catchers than anything one would refer to as panties 🤣

But HarryDaylight you’re the one who sounds like they have ‘shit for brains’ not people using the word panties

Yodude · 31/07/2019 23:35

Sure it's a great word!

ladyratterley · 31/07/2019 23:42

Ugh! It’s my worst word too!
It’s so cringy & bleurgh.
For me it has connotations of dirty, pervy old men. Shudder.

hadthesnip2 · 31/07/2019 23:51

I love the word panties......but then I'm male so I suppose it doesn't count 😁.

I did date someone last year who called her big unsexy ones..."granny panties".

NameChangerOfTheNorth · 31/07/2019 23:54

It's an awful word. Too twee for words. But one person I know used to call them "unmentionables" Smile because she thought "knickers" was a vulgar term.

Susiesoop · 31/07/2019 23:58

YANBU-downright creepy. Shudder.

origamiunicorn · 01/08/2019 00:00

I was about to say, yes, Victoria's Secret and then I read the rest of your post. As well as on signage, the employees there are made to say panties too!

IncyWincyGrownUp · 01/08/2019 00:17

My son says pantalons (not pantaloons, apparently that would be silly Hmm) in reference to any knicker/pant item.

Slightly better than his older brother who once decided all pants should be known as bumderwear. Thankfully that only lasted a few days!:o

LoafofSellotape · 01/08/2019 00:18

I've never heard it used in the UK, only as panty liners.

Korvalscat · 01/08/2019 00:19

YANBU but like many others have said, it's common in the US.

A few years ago I used to read a sort of fashion blog written by an American woman and she stated that in the UK panties were called pants, knickers or undercrackers. The last one made me laugh and I will say it occasionally to (adult) dd who read the same blog, but I have never heard anyone else use this term or is it a regional/young thing?

Mothership4two · 01/08/2019 00:29

I have never heard it said out loud. It's a very american term.

Wouldn't make me feel sick though Envy - not envy! :)

phoenixrosehere · 01/08/2019 00:54

American here and yes it’s an American term which seems to get some people easily annoyed 🙄.

I say pants or underwear because knickers sound way too close to the N-word.. Took a bit of time not to inwardly cringe every time I heard someone say it when I moved to the UK.

RaggeddeeAnn · 01/08/2019 00:56

VS is a US company and they call them panties there because pants are trousers, knickers are knee length trousers (as in knicker-bockers), etc.
Just live with it.

catofdoom · 01/08/2019 01:01

DH used to calm them panties (he's American) and the first time he did it I flipped out and called him a creepy Percy arsehole. Now whenever someone else says it in front of me he has a little chuckle and looks scared.

catofdoom · 01/08/2019 01:01

OMG. 'Call' and 'pervy'.