Sorry but your posts are just so insightful.
I was SO NAIVE at the start and believed that mostly, as long as I was "honest" and because I had been a "good person" prior to first claiming benefits that while it may take a short while it wouldn't be a problem getting what the law said I was eligible for... Ohhhh how wrong I was!
Oh yes. I was told last week whilst in A&E, in my wheelchair, it was good I was a "genuine" PIP claimant. I didn't know whether to laugh or cry.
The example of my blind DP, and sexism absolutely played a part in that debacle, being refused PIP through appeal, then making a new claim and finally being accepted after a specialist in the country submitted evidence was an absolute farce.
As for poverty, people don't realise what it's like watching the electric meter, hoping it doesn't drop until you can get to the shop in two days after being paid, looking in the fridge and worrying about food. And worry, worry and more worry. Constant worry about money.
And holidays? Luxuries? We're "lucky" with PIP that we have a car (not free you jokers, you can have my £250 a month, along with all my disabilities instead if you prefer, any takers?) but money is still stretched due to medical requirements, specialist diets, medical stuff we have to buy, extra fuel for appointments, this month we have 28, as an example. Then the being made to feel guilty for medication and it's costs. I take a tablet costing circa. £300 pm, DP an injection (x6/8) costing £150 a pop. How do we know the cost? It's the job of the surgery/pharmacy that patients are aware. There's the, currently lower-lying, campaign to mark all px drugs with their wholesale cost, y'know, just to kick the destitute between the legs a bit more.
I hate the intimation that all benefit claimants, and disabled people, are "scrounging fucks" too. I have two degrees, I was published, a "luminary" in my field, at the time I became disabled and had to give it all up. I'd never been a scrounger my entire life, yet get this shit aimed at me routinely, with the "youngster's playing the system" card.
Yet we have such a great and lauded welfare system. Boak.