@BarbaraofSeville
But what you describe is quite a comfortable standard of living I disagree with this.
an expensive car second hand Ford Focus which I need for work
Plenty of money for clothes and food £250 to feed a family of 4 is hardly plenty. It's about £15 a week per person. It was actually a typo, we spend more than that. £50 per person for clothes is not tons either IMO, especially when the kids rip/stain/ruin/grow out of stuff at a rate of knots.
above average council tax and utilities Not where I live.
suggesting you are putting the heating on and covering these costs Does this make someone 'comfortable'? Affording heating?? We live on the North West coast, gets pretty cold here in winter.
being able to afford insurance Legally required for mortgage and car, not a luxury.
public transport costs in addition to a decent car To allow myself and my DH to get to work. Again, not what I'd consider a luxury.
And as I stated in my last post, I don't think the money left over would be enough to cover everything that's left. Poverty? Maybe not. Things could be cut. Comfortable? Definitely not in my opinion. I'd describe it as 'barely managing' and 'one minor financial issue away from disaster'.
Like I say though, it's subjective. I know some people will consider they very fact that people can afford to buy their own house means that they are 'well off' but it shouldn't be a race to the bottom.