I posted some weeks ago about a close male friend ghosting me out of the blue. Well he stopped texting me personally having ususally sent multiple texts most days. He still posts to a shared work group. I posted here as I was bewildered and hurt. I needed advice and perspective and got it from here . He has a girlfriend who found out about his level of messaging and probably told him to stop.
Recently he has started back in personal contact.justmemes, interesting posts that he knows I would like.You all said that this would happen.i can’t understand why he would bother . I do not know for certain that he stopped the personal contact because he was asked to or if my friendship was not needed anymore but I was damned hurt and am afraid that I will be reeled right back in again as we work together here and there so absolute no contact is virtually impossible.
What’s going on in his mind now in your opinion?