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To be fed up that I sold my flat over 2 months ago but the buyer keeps contacting me

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FreshFreesias · 19/07/2019 20:56

I completed on the sale of my flat 2 months ago. I was happy to swap contact details with my buyer - it is nice to remain on friendly terms as I know how trepidatious it can be to move somewhere new and I was happy to answer any (reasonable) questions. Also the odd bit of mail might slip through the redirection so it’s helpful if they can forward anything.

All was quiet until a received a flurry of questions from the extremely irritating estate agent saying their boiler had broken down and asking me for information about who had installed it and where was the warranty etc. I explained that I had responded to their solicitor’s queries to their satisfaction at time of exchange, as it was a new build I had passed on a final completion certificate and gas safety certificate but hadn’t activated a warranty on the new boiler - something that had never occurred to me until that call, submerged as I was in all the other red tape selling a property involves.

I can see getting a boiler warranty would have been a good idea but really it was the job of the buyer’s solicitor to obtain all the necessary paperwork and if they’d asked then I would have done it. Anyway, the boiler had been installed for a few years and was in perfect working order when I left.

I gave the estate agent the contact details of my builder who I said might be able to shed some light on why the boiler had broken and emphasised that while I was sorry to hear about this, in the spirit of caveat emptor, their boiler problems were no longer mine to deal with.

A few days later I receive a very prickly missive from my buyer asking me to activate the warranty `as a matter of courtesy’ as apparently only I can do this. I said I had no objection to doing it but as the refurb was project managed by an architect (who ripped me off so badly that I’d rather pull out my teeth than have any further dealings with him), he was the only person who had access to required myriad details such as date of installation, name of installer and their CORGI ref and whether the moon was waxing or waning at the time.

She was also in a state of high dudgeon as the tricky neighbours had sent her a bill for redecoration agreed during my ownership which I’d clearly told them in writing to pass on to me after I moved but which they `mistakenly’ sent to her. I had made all this clear in the conveyancing forms to her and her solicitor but I told her I would settle the bill and not to worry as she had copied me in an email thread to them saying she was furious and trying to get hold of her solicitor for clarity.

I suspect if she had been a little more emollient and less entitled I might not have been so irritated. In her position I would have used charm and apology, realising I needed something from someone who really didn’t need to help me. I

I had to discount the property vastly to get a quick sale after years of tortuous building work and an architect who had nearly ruined me. I was so hugely relieved to sell, even at a vast loss, but to be plunged back into that terrible time after the amazing relief of being free from it has really rattled my cage.

To make things worse, I am dealing with a family bereavement so she hasn’t caught me at a good time.

I’ll be over it in a few days but just thought I’d have an anonymous vent on here. I mean, when does caveat emptor not mean caveat emptor?!

I wonder if anyone else has an interesting story about buyers staying in touch with sellers. My brother married the woman whose flat he bought so happier alliances than mine can be made.

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FrenchBoule · 20/07/2019 08:37

OP, your writing style is great and so is your nickname, freesias smell heavenly!

boosterrooster · 20/07/2019 08:47

Block them

Dieu · 20/07/2019 09:41

I'm going to go against the grain here, and say that it's rotten for her to end up with a non-working boiler.
'Sold as seen' is a pretty unfair argument in this instance.

Holenewme · 20/07/2019 09:51

theunrivalled the OP sounds a bit mean spirited?

Bookworm4 · 20/07/2019 10:17

How is it rotten she’s ended up with a not working boiler? Whether it’s 3 months or 3 years after sale it’s not the sellers fault, things break.

Doubleraspberry · 20/07/2019 10:33

Boilers are bastards. The first flat I ever bought had a boiler that broke two weeks after I moved in. It’s not the seller’s fault, and the warranty should have been part of the conveyancing process. I sold a flat which had a DPC still under guarantee. The buyers asked me to transfer it to their names (cost some money) and I did, and it was dealt with along with all the others bits of sale minutiae.

CannyLad · 20/07/2019 10:53

My DP was contacted via LinkdIn via some old mail with DPs name on by the new owner of the rental property we had moved out of a few months previously. He was complaining that the boiler didn't work and the roof needed replacing and did we know anything about that? He said that an engineer had told him that boiler maintenance records must have been falsified because it was leaking carbon monoxide (!).

Well, yes, there were tiles literally falling off the roof and smashed around the house. The landlady didn't want /couldn't afford to pay for a new roof so we assumed that why the house was sold. The boiler was old and knackered but had been tested whilst we were there. These things were so obvious it wasn't even a surveyor's job to point them out. There were holes in the roof FFS.

I think some people stretch themselves to buy a place, not realising why they can even consider a property on a given street where everything else is +20% . It's not that it's a bargain, it needs probably 25% of the value spending on sorting it out! When they discover their mistake they come looking for restitution. That and things break. If you've always rented it can be a bit of a shock how much it costs to maintain and replace things.

FreshFreesias · 20/07/2019 11:17

@cannylad, that's right.
My buyers had been renting and I got the impression that they thought the seller had the same duties as a landlord in some way.

@FrenchBoule thanks for your kind words.

What it is of course, that most of us are happy to help people but the shutters come down somewhat if they are rude or ungracious.

I've generally had good experiences when buying and selling.
I bought a house from a woman who I got on so well with she moved back in, renting a room for a year, while her divorce went through.

I sold a flat years ago to a super young guy who I invited to parties and he then dated a friend for a bit. You can generally have a nice bond and expect a bit of quid pro quo if both sides are reasonable.

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FreshFreesias · 20/07/2019 11:19

Shocked at the poster whose prospective buyer came round to chop down trees before they had even exchanged!

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PuppyMonkey · 20/07/2019 11:25

Anyone else thinking of going on another thread just to write the word ‘emollient’ somewhere, or is that just me?Grin

ludothedog · 20/07/2019 11:34

The previous owners to our property turned up 4 YEARS later thanking me for sending on her post. I had stopped sending on the post years previously. She then went on to make comment about what we had done in the hall and asking if we had a party going on (tv was on). Nosey fucker she was.

Love51 · 20/07/2019 11:36

My boiler broke a year and a half after I bought the house. I contacted the boiler company and they told me the warranty ran out last month, they could extend it for X pounds (and would then repair for free). X pounds was cheaper than cost of repair, so I did. It is a warranty, not insurance, it goes with the item, not the buyer. She might not need paperwork if the company keep independent records.

NoSquirrels · 20/07/2019 11:50

If you bought a house and the boiler broke after 3 months, you’d be pissed off too.

Meh. Stuff breaks. Unpredictably. "Being pissed off" and " making it someone else's problem" are not the same thing.

The first flat we bought turned out to need an eye-wateringly expensive roof repair 3 months after we moved in. We had stretched ourselves and it was a massive monthly payment. Conveyancers did all the due diligence, it was just bad luck.

This house turned out to have damp not picked up on the survey. The sellers did know about it (evidence of treatment/cover up when we moved in). My surveyor at fault but cost more in time and effort to pursue than to just fucking fix it. I did feel slightly aggrevied when the sellers wrote us a bit of a snotty note about non-payment for appliances they'd left after 3 months - when we were deep in the midst of the work to sort out the damp - but as it was a genuine oversight (I thought solicitors had sorted it at time of purchase), we paid up.

Property purchasing is just like that. You have to suck it up. Once you have the keys, your problem is not their responsibility.

31RueCambon · 20/07/2019 11:55

When I bought my house the gas had been turned off at the mains. I accept this on the basis that nobody had been living there and /or tennant disputes about who was liable for the last bill. But when I moved in and got Bord Gais to come over and reconnect they wouldn't because the boiler wasn't safe. So I had to get a new one! I accepted this. Everything in the house was 25 years old. It was no shock really. What did annoy me was that she seemed angry I was getting the house for ''such a song''. Her choice to sell it! When I was moving in the neighbours told me ''you got the house for a song''.

namechangeninjaevervigilant · 20/07/2019 12:00

Block and ignore.

StrangeLookingParasite · 20/07/2019 14:41

"and? Am I not to have an opinion because it differs from others?"

What is this idea that because someone disagrees with you, you're being 'silenced'? You criticised, someone else didn't agree with you, oh well.

JoxerGoesToStuttgart · 20/07/2019 14:46

What is this idea that because someone disagrees with you, you're being 'silenced'?

I was asking that poster what point they were making with their comment that I was in the minority.

you’re the minority: rest of seem to have delighted in OP’s elegant prose.

Do you know what their point was? I think it was to tell me I’m wrong and shouldn’t have posted.

JoxerGoesToStuttgart · 20/07/2019 14:50

I mean, there are no comments addressed to any of the people who like Ops writing style saying “you’re in the majority, only a couple of others dislike OPs writing”, are there? So it seems that they’re not just responding to posters posting an opinion on OPs writing style, just the ones who disagree with their own opinion, which suggests they think I shouldn’t be posting.

Her0utdoors · 20/07/2019 15:00

I'd reply reiterating that it's not your problem and lay it on thick about the bereavement, then block their contacts. Sorry for your loss.

GreenwoodLane · 20/07/2019 15:09

12 months ago, I bought a Worcester boiler and all the newfangled bells and whistles.

Bastard broke down the day before Xmas eve (Sunday - no engineers available).

Boilers break down at any age.

SkiingIsHeaven · 20/07/2019 15:32

Our previous buyers would call and ask whether it was safe to hang pictures on different walls in the house. This went on for some time. When they stopped we assumed that they had no more pictures to hang.

groundanchochillipowder · 20/07/2019 15:44

I had this with a car I sold. The guy just kept ringing about any little thing. I blocked him in the end.

I've also bought a house where the boiler broke a couple of months later. Meh. Shit happens.

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