To clarify, myself and my kids live with my mom!
I've been invited to a couple of places over the summer break that mean doing a 2-3 hour drive to get there one of which also means staying with friends for two nights and not getting home til the sunday afternoon-ish, so I wont be home when Ex drops them off.
Mom is quite happy to look after them overnight if i'm away, so has no problem in being the one Ex drops the kids off.
Im not BU to do it am I?
Ex can be a bit funny and grumpy (he doesn't like me having a social life) and i'm trying to learn to ignore his moods and get on with my life.