My Dd turns one this week, in a year myself and dp haven’t been out alone or spent any time together alone. We’ve been fine with this but have started to think we’d like to start going out, just for a few hours, just us.
We will probably try to sort a babysitter soon for a couple of times a month (v expensive here)
We live abroad and my parents stay at our house for two week breaks, a few times a year.
Aibu to want them to offer to babysit for just a few hours one evening, just so we can go to the beach/go for a few cocktails, just the two of us?
I’ve dropped so many hints and they regularly babysit for my sister, who lives down the road, sometimes for the weekend/a few days whilst she goes away (although they kind of complain about it a little, they also look after her kids a few times per week, whilst she works) hence why I’m uncertain to ask.
Aibu to just really want them to offer?? To see that dp and I need/would like a break 🤷♀️