From the beginning we have asked people NOT to kiss our daughter and at first people complied, some with resistance telling us “she needs to build an immune system you will make her ill if you don’t let people kiss her!” Obviously we know this not to be true and it’s best not to let anyone kiss your child no matter who they are to them! Anyway over the weeks people have slowly started to ignore what we have been telling them and have started kissing her as they please! Obviously I’m very annoyed by this as they are just completely disregarding what we told them. So again today we mentioned it to both sides of the family, my family was absolutely fine with it no questions asked however my MIL objected saying she feels as though we are targeting her and that she is HER granddaughter and she wants to kiss her! She said we are making her feel as though she is disgusting and will infect our child. I’m just shocked by her response as in no way are we targeting her.. we’ve mentioned it to BOTH sides of the family not just her.. and it seems as though she just has complete disregard for our wishes and our baby’s health.. AIBU to be annoyed by this? And more importantly AIBU to ask people not to kiss her? Her sly remarks and comments over the weeks are making me feel like I’m doing the worst thing possible for my daughter and as though I am being silly.